Why does this married guy like to say my name quite often and always good morning and makes fun of my laughs playfully and gives me attention?

[Anonymous]

I feel like he gives me certain attention but won’t admit he likes me and if I don’t really talk to him for a day or so he will come up to me and ask if I am mad at him and read my face expression and be like something is wrong with you today or you not in the best mood or he will say it will okay like am I imagining something or he just being a friend and nice guy to me?

[spartan55]

Why, do you want to have an affair with a married man? This shouldn't even be crossing your mind.

[Asker]

I’m asking what it sounds like in his mind

[spartan55]

Shouldn't matter he's married. It seems like you are pretending that isn't the case.

[Asker]

His the one pretending that he is not bc he hasn’t ever mentioned his wife except maybe ones

[spartan55]

@asker
Again SO WHAT? Why does that matter? You are going along with it. You think his wife would be happy if she knew what he was doing?

[Asker]

No of course not but he is the one leading me on and he is very sneaky the way he does it

[spartan55]

Again, he can't lead you on unless you allow it. You have the agency to remind him he is married. Use it.

[Asker]

I always reminded him that he is married with a wife

[Asker]

I’m not at fault

[spartan55]

You are at fault because you can tell him to stop and you won't. Tell his wife it's
not your fault, see how that goes over.

[Asker]

I told him I don’t play games and that his married and needs to focus on his wife how much more should I tell

[spartan55]

"you don't play games" 😂 😂 except with married men...

[Asker]

What games have I played with him

[spartan55]

Stay away from married men. I really hope someone chests on you one day.

[spartan55]

You haven't told him any of that stuff.

[spartan55]

If you said all that then you know he is flirting with you. Yet you are still playing dumb acting like you don't know what's going on. You think I was born yesterday. Just stop already.

[shades777]

just duck him already

[Asker]

What are you trying to say here?

[Anonymous]

He like u and wann cheat on his wife

[Asker]

What makes you say that?

[Opinion Owner]

Im sure
Wait for it
I think he do flirts

[Asker]

Not trying to be a friend

[riverrat3]

Flirting

[Asker]

Not a friend more like?

[spartan55]

@asker No guy wants to be your friend.

[Asker]

@spartan55 oh well I don't know

[spartan55]

Believe what you want. Why would you befriend a married man?

[Asker]

@spartan55 he wanted to befriend me first

[spartan55]

@asker
So what? So that means you are obligated to let him flirt with you and not tell him NO? Are you saying that you have to go along with it because he befriended you first? Yeah great excuse.

[Asker]

@spartan55 he is the one who will lead me on and very sneaky the way he does it and he never mentions his wife I actually told
Him many times to focus on his wife and family he has a very beautiful wife I don't know why he is focused on me

[spartan55]

Just tell him NO... wtf is with the excuses?

[Asker]

@spartan55 tell him no to what? It’s not like
He ever asked to sleep it cheat with me smh

[spartan55]

You can play dumb all you want, you know where it's going. You are gross.

[Asker]

@spartan55 not going anywhere he knows that

[spartan55]

Oh really? I'm sure you actually told him that, right?
It doesn't mean he will stop trying... you just don't get it.

[spartan55]

Just tell everyone in the office he befriended you and it's not your fault...🙄

[Asker]

@spartan55 it is not my fault 🤦‍♀️