Why would a married guy always want to talk to me and smiles whenever we talk?

[Anonymous]

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Before my grandma died, on my moms side, way back in the late 80's, she was actually seeing a married man (unknowingly). The thing with him was, his wife was actually very sick, not sure if it was physical or mental, but, he had to put her in a home and so, he decided he felt it was ok to see other people. SO he met my grandma, but then my grandma developed lung cancer from smoking, and passed away

[catiecatie]

Feels like he can trust you. Enjoys talking to you. Close friend. Coworker. I don't know I need more information!

[Asker]

Neighbor. He’d always come to the elevator same time as me and initiate conversation and stuff.

[catiecatie]

So I assume apartment. Maybe he goes out the same time or just needs someone to talk to. I work with guys so I get that. Most of them married and I don’t go after guys that are in relationships. No matter if they are happy or not.

[Asker]

Oh yeah I agree. That’s why I’m confused. Like does him and his wife talk enough? Lol

[catiecatie]

Possibly not but if he hasn’t hinted at getting together whenever the wife isn’t around I think your thinking too much into it. When he does maybe try and go out a different way, but it seems harmless to me at the moment.

[Asker]

He told me once that if I ever need anything to come by

[catiecatie]

Yeah just harmless small talk it is. Like I said if he asks to basically sneak around then keep your distance. That’s like a really good guy friend in my opinion same with my old coworkers. If I ever needed to talk about something I knew I could trust them.

[spartan55]

Always talk to you where?

[JPresidente]

He could be flirting with you

[Asker]

He stares at me a lot when Im out somewhere or just standing there.

[JPresidente]

He is obviously attracted to you then. Since he’s married it could be a sexual attraction.

[Asker]

Yeah for sure. He seems really awkward around me too. Sometimes it made me uncomfortable lol

[Akam93]

He's probably unhappily married.

[Asker]

Well I never see him out with her even though they live together. And he never smiles much.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t trust him