Why would a married guy keep staring at me?

[Anonymous]

Everyday I go soccer training with my friend at a park. There is this guy who keeps staring at me, but when I look at him, he looks away. I noticed he wasn’t doing this with other women that are around him. Sometimes he would greet me and sometimes he would pretend to ignore me. But then I’ll catch him staring at me for the rest of my training session. It got to a point that my friend told me, “I think that dude really likes you, he keeps staring at you”. This has been happening for about a year. It wasn’t until yesterday when I found out he is married. Anyway, I’m just curious why would this guy keep doing this knowing he is married? Like, why?

[loveslongnails]

Women - hint for you: men don't suddenly go blind because they get married. Some men just continue to look and do nothing about it, but they still get turned on by a beautiful woman. Obviously he thinks you're beautiful. Would he have an affair with you? I'd put money on it since he looks at you so much.

[Asker]

Thank you, I appreciate your honest opinion.

[loveslongnails]

I can't speak for all men, obviously, but it's rare that a man misses looking at a beautiful women when she is range. Married or single, he'll still look. Most will look even if their wives or girlfriend's are with them.

[Asker]

That’s happened to me before that guys would look but I had never experienced something like with this guy that he keeps gazing at me.

[OfMiceandMen]

Some married guys are creeps and a-holes, sounds like you have one that is an admirer.

I have one girl who is a friend and she keeps a fake diamond ring, where's it when she knows a guy is creeping her out. Tends to get rid of the creeps. Once they are gone or don't take notice of you anymore, just slip it back in the bag and it is business as usual.

She will wear it to the bar so she doesn't get hassled by drunkards.

[CoolCatMar1]

Well, men usually stare at every woman. That's what I noticed and that's what they themselves state. Maybe it's nothing.

[NewsReader]

When you see something or someone attractive, do you wanna look at it more? Yes. It stimulates your brain and releases dopamine or "Feel Good" hormones. Married or not, our brain continues to be attracted to the same stuff it was made to like. It's nature. There is nothing creepy about it. If you ever get married, your man will continue sneaking peeks at other women he finds attractive. Accept it.

[boggboss]

Your acting like married people at times don't cheat

[Asker]

🤣😂 I know I shouldn’t be surprised, I guess is because this guy seemed so put together and focused in character.

[boggboss]

Because thats what he wants people to think

[Asker]

That makes sense. It just sucks that a guy would do that.

[boggboss]

Many people cheat and yes its always shitty

[Asker]

Thanks for keeping it real! I appreciate your opinion 👍🏽

[earthcitizen7]

Because you are interesting to him, for some reason. Maybe he finds you attractive. Maybe he likes your outfit. Maybe you remind him of his mother that died when he was young. Maybe you tied your shoelaces together, and he is wondering if you will trip and fall. It could be for a MILLION reasons.

God created Our Universe with Love and Free Will. Use your Free Will to Love!

[the-mad-german]

because men like to stare at women... why exactly? 1000 posibilities... sometimes i see a woman wearing a specific piece of clothing i like and thats reason enough to stare xD

[Asker]

He does this everyday as if he has never seen me before. I’d be surprised is my clothes, I’m only wearing my soccer jerseys and shorts most the time🤣

[the-mad-german]

well maybe just ask him... my guess is he's into you if he's doing this frequently

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s possible he has an old clunker of a car at home & he’s looking to trade it in for a new model.

[spartan55]

Because guys will stare at women they find attractive. This is front page news to a woman in her 30's? Yeah okay... 👌

[noohair]

The male caveman brain is always processing things and some guys don't understand that they are doing it.

[In_Trance]

just because he's married doesn't mean he's dead.

all people look

[masterberke]

maybe you are a very attractive and sexy woman. that's why he was looking at you.

[Anemone978]

Give him the finger he will stop...

[LiamSawyer]

Maybe because you're hot and sexy looking.

[HaveNoName]

Are YOU married? Perhaps he sees you as a MILF.

[Asker]

Im single, I’m not married. I really have no idea why he keeps gazing at me. Knowing he is married, makes it even more confusing to me.

[HaveNoName]

Men will be men. He finds you sttractive so he will stare. He might not do it when his wife is by his side, but otherwise, they all do.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Because he has eyes.

[Paul09]

He has a starting problem.

[Wise4myage]

He wants to smash.

[Asker]

I cannot be sure because he has never approached me 🤣😂 I’m just thrown off at the fact that he keeps staring at me

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, or it’s a crush.

[Mayo503]

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