Ok so not sure why, but I seem to be a target for unwanted attention from the wrong type of guys when I'm not doing anything to attract them. Incident #1:
I would go for coffee at this one coffee place in my town with a couple of gal friends. An older guy (old enough to be my dad) who knew one of my friends kept staring at me, I just ignored him, kept ignoring him. One day he struck up a conversation with me to which I thought nothing of because he asked what i do for a job, just casual talk so explained to him. Then suddenly one day he asks me if I like my job and jokingly said "I've got a job for you, we will talk about it" then winked at me. A week went by then he stopped by my work to give me his phone # to which I told him I'm not interested and seeing someone. He left but he keeps dr8ving by my work and waves at me. I keep ignoring him but he still does this.
Incident #2: a guy I went to school with who I havnt seen since high school started talking to me on Facebook, which seemed harmless and he also stopped by my work to say hi, but then he started bombarding me with messages saying "xoxo" and kiss emoji and told me "you havnt changed at all, still sexy and beautiful" meanwhile he's married so I blocked him but he drives by my work multiple times a day now too.
Incident #3: a guy I hung out with 6 months ago, told me he's not ready for a relationship but got with another girl, but then drove by me all the time& looked over at me, I ignores him but he still drives by.
Why the hell are they doing this? I know I sound like a psycho but it's true, I think it's just creepy and weird especially when I keep ignoring them, but they continue. I wear a hoodie, and jeans as I work outdoors. I wear my hair down so not dressing for attention, etc.
