Why do some guys pick easy or ugly girls?

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Not to sound rude but I find it common to see ugly girls with an easy personality having a lot of boys after them. Usually they have a good body. It just makes me wonder why you would choose someone like that over a smart girl or someone will make you chase and keep boundaries. Some girls just sleep with the guy right away, you get my point? I had a guy friend who sort of hinted he wanted this really ugly girl, he did not know her so I don't understand what he saw. Why is this so common? I'm hard to get and attractive (not to brag) and I definitely wouldn't sleep with a guy right away like how can you not want that? I'm sorry if this is offensive.

TheSpartan · Accepted Answer

Okay, your view of men is really skewed. Let me correct you on some things:

If a woman has a plain-looking or ugly face with a good body, she isn't ugly. In fact, her body makes her attractive or even hot. And, if she's easy, she's often assertive and open--something that is pretty sexy, especially when the woman herself has a great body.

Second, if she's easy, then it's easier to get sex. Boom, that's it. Easy sex makes many a testosterone-fueled men feel sexually powerful, masculine, attractive, charming, smart, etc. Sex feels great, and you get the bonus of great self-esteem. What's not to like?

Third, playing hard to get doesn't do anything. Men tend to pursue women they think they can realistically attract; better yet, men like women whom like them. Playing hard to get will turn more men away than it will attract.

Hopefully I was of some help.

MadeInAmerica · Accepted Answer

ust because you don't find the girl attractive doesn't mean she isn't for that guy that is with them or guys you may want. You don't know if they sleep with guys right away or keep boundaries. You sound a bit bitter.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe they are not the ugly ones. You just think they are. Also maybe they just want sex, or just want to feel good. I will be honest I used to give it away easily. This had nothing to do with my appearance. It had to do with my home life. My parents where not what you would call good parents. They where very pushy. If I got bad grades they would yell at me, but if I got good grades no praise. They only saw the bad. Called me stupid, and crazy. Only let me come inside the house when it started getting dark. I acted out because they did not care, and because I wanted attention that they did not give me. Once I had a kid that all changed. He was the love of my life, and I wanted him to have a better life than me, and be a better person to. So do not be so easy to judge others. I kind of wish people had treated me better, and I wanted to feel loved.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

Because no one wants a girl that makes them "chase." They like women that are straight up. Secondly, how do you know that these girls are easy? Do you watch them have sex with these men? And why is this even your issue?

Guys don't want the "hard to get" girl, they want the girl that doesn't play games and expect them to do all of the work, rather is honest, genuine, and willing to be an active part of the courting process.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I totally agree with you. I don't get it too! Nowadays girls sleep around with guys on a first date or sometimes there isn't even a date. Makes guys lazy about finding a girl who isn't going to give it up right away. It's not that we are playing games, we are just not easy. And then men complain they can't find someone loyal and faithful when it's their fault for thinking with their other head.

EasyForYouToSay · Accepted Answer

Did you take a double dose of bitter pills this morning?
Being 'hard to get' isn't really a good thing. It means you're playing games, and that pisses EVERYONE off. Guys are usually going to go for girls who are honest and straight up, and not high maintenance, dramatic girls. Wonder which category you fit in to?

jordan90 · Answer

Ugly girls have better personalities because they have to work at it harder than hot girls. Also someone once told me that fat chicks give the best head; because they're always hungry lol. I can confirm that statement is 100% true. And if this offends anyone, well they can fuck off.

JayB124b · Answer

Chase...

Chasing is fun. Really. Except that I haven't met a woman who knows how to at hard to get. They play disinterested. Then if I continue my interest I am a weird pervert stalking guy. No thanks.

Play hard to get correctly then fine. Playing notinterested then five years later that you wanted us isn't the answer.

BreatheMe19 · Answer

1. Nobody wants to play games. Being 'hard to get' isn't exactly a good thing.  2. What's ugly to you may not be ugly to others.  3. Please get over yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

My brother is fairly hot and quite intelligent as well. I think he knows he can almost get any girl he wants and most of the girls in his college adore him. Eventually he found a girl who was no where near gorgeous but he told me that she had a great personality someone who wanted to share his heart with.

They are still together after 2 years and the other girls always give her weird stares. Not all guys go for looks.

Intraluminal · Answer

It's not offensive, but as with so many questions here, the answer is IN the question.

"Why... you would choose someone... will make you chase and keep boundaries... some girls just sleep with the guy right away."

Anonymous · Answer

If they have a good body, they aren't ugly. Your definition of ugly is flawed.

So basically, your question is, why do guys go after attractive girls who like to have sex, when they could go after pretty but fat girls who don't want to have sex, and make them jump through a lot of hoops to maaaaybe get some.

Yeah, it's a mystery.

Jack_the_striper · Answer

The real question here: do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who just thinks about sex?
If yes, then be an easy girl.
If no, then stop playing hard to get. You said you're already attractive, you just need 2 more things: being nice & smart.
If you are nice & attractive & smart, you are hard-enough.

ninetynine · Answer

Either he's bored and just wants sex, or he finds her cute and likes her personality.  Maybe you're not very approachable?

Anonymous · Answer

Not all guys are just attracted to appearance. They're human like girls too. They look for personalities too. Would you want to marry a totally hot male model who treats you like shit? I don't think so.

TheOldMan59 · Answer

When all the cute girls have rejected you, it's not really hard to figure out.

Anpu23 · Answer

Because the easy ones are just that easy. If it takes work or risk then depending on the guy they might not try.

Zanecyber · Answer

usually its just to bust a nut, they aren't looking for a relationship

Anonymous · Answer

How are you hard to get Just because you dont sleep with some straight away? I dont do it either, but I wouldn't really refer myself as hard to get, I would rather say im not easy.. but than again each to their own i guess

Tiger288 · Answer

What the problem good looking guy to date ugly? Cuz she had great personality and don't play game like u. To be honest with u, I won't date u cuz u are cocky think best than girls.

zagor · Answer

What makes you think everyone shares your standards?

Anonymous · Answer

Because it's tough for a guy to be in a relationship or get sex if he doesn't drop his standards a ton.

Balcazaurus · Answer

Because they're easy, I assume.

Nnessie · Answer

Because sex.

DabieberRoyalty · Answer

bit rude but I get you

Anonymous · Answer

You just answered your own question

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