I live in China, I work really hard and I have a pretty good income.
I got friends with a Georgian girl, who has never worked in her life, has only worked part time in the past, she had a business and was kind of a fraudster.
I, on the other hand, I used to work in law.
So, this friend of mime while gives me great times, still spends more time at my home, than I do, and I am literally never alone at home, she is a type of person who always tries to live on someone’s expense.
I like being friends with her and seeing her maybe 3-4 times a week but everyday having her at home is getting annoying.
She uses my clothes, my make up and while also always offers hers as well, I just like having my own things and don’t like using hers.
She has been staying with me for 3 months, while trying to save money and hunt on young rich men. I, though, work really hard and seems like she spends more time at home for which I pay, she has more savings than me, but when I told her maybe it’s time for her to start looking for a stable job and get her own apartment, because I need my own space, since I had a really tough childhood and never had my own privacy, so now I want to live my way, she told me it’s really hard for her because she doesn’t know which city to choose and all the apartments ask for 3 months deposit.
Seems like she didn’t get a hint that I need my space and she needs to live, seems like she also doesn’t appreciate our friendship more than 3 months deposit of her future apartment, or she’d rather go and get it, instead of sacrificing my comfort and living on my expense.
I feel used. If she wanted to get a job she would get so far, but instead she enjoys dating rich young guys, while I barely have time for dating. And doesn’t care about getting her own apartment cause she feels perfectly happy and comfortable at my home.
I get moody when I’m home, cause I don’t have any privacy anymore, first I was trying to let it go, I thought she would soon find her place and I was sacrificing my comfort for a friendship, because we always had fun, but not anymore
She said, she understands it’s just too expensive. What the hell. She still tries to manipulate guilt in me.