I had a young female acquaintance DM me out of nowhere last evening asking what my favorite “dessert” was. This is someone I met in passing a few months ago. We only had a quick but friendly/flirty conversation and we connected on IG
Anyway I first said “honey” with a smily fast. She goes “oh really”. And I said yeah it was a good midnight snack and can be applied to anything. She then said “oh are you looking for fun too”. I responded back “well two can enjoy dessert” with a smily face. She said “well what do you mean?” I then told her she my real weakness is Nutella (which is true and it’s better I don’t buy it) but “yes I was looking for fun too”. I then gave her my number (this was on IG).
Woke up this morning and I saw she blocked me.
Why does it always have to be some sort of shit test when women ask men what they looking for? Especially given she initiated the conversation? I feel like the safest bet is to be playful with sexual innuendo. I could have just kept the conversation innocent but she was hinting around herself when she first DM’d me. But I also know if went directly to sexual details there’s a huge risk she would get creeped out if it wasn’t what she wanted to here.
Anyway why do some of you set up this trap? I feel like some women are expecting me to give a perfect entertaining response to whatever they are thinking. But when a man is put on the spot don’t expect him to always get it right.
What Girls Said
Do you realize that you are partly at fault for playing her game. You wanted it and now you are upset about it.
If you would not have responded to her innuendos, then you should have made it clear and block her right away. That would have ended the discussion right away but no, instead of doing the only right thing, you continued and now you are paying the price for it.
Why did you even state that honey was your favorite dessert when something else is? You initiated these innuendos by ostentatiously lying to her. You might just as well have told her that your favorite dessert was ice cream or cookies.
So, why are you even complaining?
I responded because I was interested too. What’s wrong with that?
nothing wrong except you must not blame her for your behavior.
For the same reasons you guys do it :/