I'm really curious about this: Do guys feel our boobs when we hug them? If so, do they feel any sexual tension?
When hugging, people's bodies come into close contact, but the sensations each person experiences can vary widely depending on numerous factors—such as the tightness of the hug, each person's body shape, and their individual sensitivity to touch. Generally speaking, men do feel "the boob squish" to some degree when hugging a woman, although the degree to which they feel it can differ.
Firstly, the sensation is usually more noticeable in hugs that are tighter and more intimate as compared to casual or side-hugs. The squish isn't typically the focus of the interaction; rather, it's just a byproduct of two bodies pressing together. Most men won't focus on it consciously unless they are specifically tuned into physical sensations or the hug is unique in some way (e. g., unusually long or tight).
Secondly, clothing can affect the sensation. Thick or padded layers may minimize the feeling, whereas thinner fabrics may make it more noticeable. The woman's bra type (padded vs. non-padded, sports bra vs. regular bra) can also impact the sensation.
Lastly, it's important to remember that the main point of a hug is usually emotional connection, not the physical sensations per se. While men might be aware of the "boob squish," it is typically not the central experience of the hug for them unless there's a romantic or sexual context.
I hope it helped you figured it out! :)
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+1 yBoobslayer here, to provide a titfinitive answer on whether guys feel the boob squish when hugging. Alas, the answer to your lies within the mesmerizing world of the wonderful, soft, natural-hanging, spherical orbs that have enchanted Boobslayer since birth. You see, when he encounters the heavenly embrace of a gentle, boob-graced hug, it's not uncommon for his bosom-drawn heart to pulse in harmonious anticipation.
The sensation of hugging against a pair of melons, boobies, tits, milkers, or even fried eggs is not like a solid squish. But you do feel something. As the bosom takes shape against your chest, the warmth, softness, and gentle pressure provide an indescribable bliss. It's a unique and pleasurable sensation that often leaves a man lost in the joy of his favorite cream pie movies afterwards.
To fully appreciate the sensual delight of such moments, one must understand that, just as Judy Garland's heavenly voice brings happiness to your soul, so too does the embrace of a female ignite a fiery curiosity within your breast. While some might disregard the simple yet sincere ecstasy, rest assured, Boobslayer, that the pleasure of boob squish when hugging is not only felt, but is the primary reason for hugging @cousin_stacey or anyone else with a pair of incredible assets.
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@Posithink Am I getting what they call "blacked?"
We usually do, yeah; especially if it's a tight hug.
As for whether we feel any sexual tension from the interaction: a young guy might, but as we mature, it really depends on the nature of our relationship with the woman.
I could hug a friend or acquaintance all day long, and the presence of her breasts wouldn't really do anything for me. If it was someone with whom I had a more intimate or flirty relationship, then it would likely have at least a minor effect on me, but nothing crazy.
It would be more that I was hugging a woman I liked, and holding her in my arms, as a romantic gesture, that affected me, rather than simply feeling her breasts against me.
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yeah I would guess men feel the tits squashing against them when the lie side ways or lie fully on top off them when fucking them but um i guess they would only feel this with big tits or average but not pancake tits i use to feel my tits sqaush against my ex's back when we hugged side ways i guess they like it hot tits squashing against his back wiles i give him back rubs head rubs and play with his hair to relax him to get help him sleep to everyone loves my head and back rubs my family always got me to do it for them and feet rubs when my ex was sitting watching tv i use to offer him feet rubs to he said yes so i use to rub his feet sometimes as we sat and watched movies together a was always so nice that way to him but yet i got cheated on i always use to comfort him through when he was sick or had a hangover he always liked to ask me up to help him relax and get a sleep his mother always said that to ure the only one who can help him relax when he's no well other girls could never do it he always came to me for that
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awww thats such a sweet story, am so happy women like you exist.
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thank you very much but didn't like that i helped him so much and he cheated as i said even though he cheated we still visit he still likes getting it done and I do because i reckon am hust to soft hearted when it comes to helping people because am a women who has been hurt to much and been not well a lot and its not nice not having someone to comfort you even thpugh i didn't get this back off him and I should be spitting in the basterds face we went through a lot he did do terrible things but i guess that's why i get told I help more people more than myself av been told off millions of people and if his mum called me a few times to ask me to come up and help him wiles she went to work like if he was badly no well or took a sezuire i know how it feels to have sezuires we both have epilepsy if i took them he would help me so i gotta give him his dues for that 1 at least zero444440000
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but as i said he deserves none of this but a guess a just have to much of a heart of gold and to nice as I've been told off everyone i know they love me for my kindness toward them he's a prick my ex hit me took a knife to me 2ce but it's over and if i could've got him to the cops to him for that threatening me but i got on brilliant with his mum and wouldn't do that to her his mum and I are very close and iam not a grass a can handle my own ass a dont need no cops
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oh no, hope your safe and that your exe stops begin such a asshole towards you.
+1 yyes they feel sexual tension if they are attracted to you like your boyfriend for instance but not all the time so it depends. it is not in my culture to hug people but i love hugs. there's just something about hugs that appeases me especially if i'm full of anxiety
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I only really notice boob squish when we make decent chest on chest contact, but I’m quite a tall guy so properly hugging girls that way is a bit of an art.
If I stand upright, they mostly end up hugging me around my stomach and their face gets pressed into my chest instead. If I bend over so they can hug me around my shoulders, the rest of our bodies are too far apart and there’s no chest contact at all.
I normally have to go for a side hug because that way we can embrace each other fully and her face doesn’t get completely smothered. In that situation, I definitely notice boob squish. Too small or flat and it's hard to notice them. Too big and it just feels like hugging a fat chick. Average-sized boobs that squish flat against you so you can still make full body contact are perfect.
And a hug should never be long enough to get aroused over, but it definitely feels nice and gives a nice warm feeling inside.
00 Reply310 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. If their boobs are small, all I feel is bra and chest. If boobs are big, I feel them going from soft to hard as they come in and vice versa when they leave. I love boobs. Thats why higging girls is fun. I get sexually aroused if I can squeeze them with my hand.
What i dont get is why is it socially acceptable to let our chests touch each other considering female chest is an organ of sexual atraction aka private part. But its not ok to greet with a hand on boob or two. Is that racist against arms with chest privlidge?50 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Yes and Yes. If a girl has large breasts it is not as well defined. Smaller breasts I feel more definition and more sexual tension because I like smaller boobs.
Most girls seem to stoop forward to minimize breast contact. But larger breasted girls just see it as inevitable and smaller breasted drunken girls just forget.
Smaller breasted drunken girls give the best hugs and sexual tension.55 Reply- +1 y
you love hugging small breasted girls that are drunk lol?
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@zero444440000 I am partial but most of the time they have hugged me.
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@adam6402 I don't pretend to be any better than I am. At least I am not hypocritical! And it has been small firm breasted girls hugging me; not me spotting a cute elfine figured girl and going in for the hug.
It is not my fault I enjoyed it immensely. Cmon man, who isn't going to enjoy firm breasts pressed against them?
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+1 yI feel boobs pressed against me. Whether I get turned on sexually or not depends on who is hugging me.
A while back, at a family gathering, my ex-wife hugged me... we had divorced amicably after 20 years of marriage several years earlier. It was a nice hug but I felt nothing sexually.
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+1 yAlways felt good against my chest, however, it depends on the person as to whether it turns me on or not.
If it's just a family member, not at all.
There was this one time, a coworker gave me a hug at the Christmas party and she deliberately rubbed/nestled her boobs against my chest. Needless to say, I was somewhat turned on.
30 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Of course we feel the boob squish. Hugging and feeling the boob squish doesn't inspire sexual tension if it's with a friend or relative. But if she's cute and I like her and it's a tight, prolonged hug, yes, there is sexual tension. She's sending a message that she's comfortable with me.
10 Reply776 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I'm a woman and still feel the boobs squish when I hug other women. Especially if we both have big boobs
70 ReplyI’m not a hugger lol so I make it quick and the last thing I’m thinking about is my boobs pressing against them 😂 If I want a man touching my boobs I’m happy if he just handles them
50 Reply920 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Yes. Hence why it's usually a "side hug" if it's family and only full frontal if it's a sexual partner.
Though someone with small boobs can come in with a frontal hug, as there is nothing to "squish"
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+1 yOf course we feel your boobs they're pushed up against us. Do you feel our arms? Yeah? Then same thing. The sexual tension thing would be individual specific.
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+1 yYes. We do. It’s why we have a “side hug” for coworkers or friends and a front hug for the ones we want to feel.
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that makes too much sense.
9 moThe wife of my brother in law used to greet me with a great big hug. I could always clearly feel her large breasts press into my chest, as she purposefully alternately ground the left then right against me. She clearly was doing this for her benefit, mine or is both. I always looked for ward to meeting her and made sure I had removed my coat so I could best feel those wonderfully ample boobs and often wondered if she in turn could feel my arousal.
00 ReplyOf course they can. Why do you think guys like hugging. If you can feel your boobs being squashed when they hug you. Don't you think they can feel it too?
00 ReplyWell, i guess it depends the age of the person! Maybe younger I gave hugs really tight and than felt the girls boobs.. but seriously it didn't happened to me since a while..
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+1 yI feel sexual tension if she allows her hand to brush against mine. That being said, I usually end up hugging women at an angle where I barely make any boob contact at all, if any at all.
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+1 yI would think women would be self conscious about hugging a man she isn’t sexually attracted to and to prevent such contact from happening in the first place.
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+1 yIt depends on the kind of hug. If it's a close chest-to-chest hug then yes I can feel her breasts. But if that kind of hug wouldn't be appropriate then no.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYes that’s why one of my good friends knows I love to hug her. She knows I like to hug her tight for that reason to which she gladly obliges. But we don’t see each other. She’s awesome.
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+1 yYes, I feel the "boob squish". Now, in return, please answer: do you feel the chubb when there is a physical response?
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+1 yNo sexual tension at all but we do feel them. It feels nice. God knew what he was doing when he created hugs 😊
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awww cute.
451 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Unless you're in a jacket or something, sure. As for sexual tension, no. Not in my case anyway. I'd say not unless there was already sexual tension there.
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Yeah and I think it would depend on the type of relationship you have with the person. What if it was your AUNT or COUSIN or even mom, sister, lol. Um.
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@Sweetsurprize I was gonna say, yeah ^^
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@Sweetsurprize depending on if you consider them attractive. Sadly, morality doesn't prevent that... Though, I suspect most have t
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The sense not to blab about it.
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+1 yIf we pay attention to them being there or if they're big tits and we can't HELP but notice them.
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Your tits would be on the verge of being noticed even when we weren't trying to.
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+1 yAbsolutely, really enjoy that feeling. It's rather intimate to be honest
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+1 yI never really thought much about it n now that i do ig i need to watch myself more when i hug a guy lol.
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nono let us feel them, they make hugs 10 times more wholesome in my opinion.
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why do u have to watch yourself when u hug a guy let them enjoy the feeling :D
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+1 yWe feel them, yeah. I don't feel any sexual attention about it though. I usually just enjoy the softness.
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yeah love the softness too
1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Mostly so long as they aren't rock hard its like hugging a pillow XD.
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+1 yThis is why I mainly do handshakes or fist bumps with dudes.
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+1 yDepends on the size ofc, but the feeling when they touch you is good
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+1 yWe can feel it if they are big enough and the clothing is thin enough, and it depends on the person.
00 Reply I don't like hugging and I hug from the side. Just shoulder to shoulder with parents and not other people. didn't feel it unless it was a long hug
00 ReplyI mean I feel it but I've never really thought anything of it. It's a part of your body 🤷.
Hottake: not everything involving a sexual body part is actually sexual.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI don't do hugs but earlier on a guy I know hugged a girl and someone said they heard him talking to himself saying 'I just felt her tits'.
10 ReplyI try to hug guys from the side so they don’t feel mine.
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+1 yPersonally I don't feel sexual tension but yes you can feel it squish lol
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. OFC it is no big deal but it does feel good and sometimes it gets me hard. Have you noticed this with any of your boyfriends?
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+1 yI've never hugged a girl outside family and I always avoided the boobs by pushing my chest in or hunching to a hug so honestly I don't know
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+1 yYes and yes... but the amount of both depends on her height and where her boobs come in contact with you.
00 Reply I personally feel sexual tension if it's a girl I like otherwise it's not something I'm consciously thinking about
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+1 yYeah, if the woman actually has tits. One of the things that would make me uncomfortable if I had a partner hugging a male friend who is single.
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+1 yAlso you look stunning in the white bikini on your homepage
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+1 yIts a lot like when a guy rubs his butt against you in a crowded bar. You probably notice but don't put much thought into it cause you were too busy talking to you girlfriends or dancing and he was just trying to get to the bar to buy a drink.
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I can usually feel them but not sexual tension unless there was already some with the girl.
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+1 yOf course we do. No we don't. Hugging isn't sexual. If we grab your boobs and start kneading them like dough that's sexual.
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+1 yFeel it and love it. One of my favorite methods of getting an idea of what she is packing even if she tries hiding them.
00 Reply808 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. No sexual tension. But a boob squish is always nice when they are large enough to be squish-able !
00 ReplyYes, you can feel them. There isn’t any sexual tension unless I have a sexual interest with them / are attracted to them.
00 Replyyes i can feel a womans breast when I hug her and do I feel anyting like sexually yes if she is my lady but just some stranger no. or sister etc no
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+1 yDepends how big she is , I usually don’t notice, maybe they notice them getting squished but guys don’t notice normally
00 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. You know a woman is giving you a fake hug or she's not attracted to you if she leans forward so her boobs don't touch you
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+1 yI feel it, especially if the girl is aroused and her nipples are hard and perky. And if that happens I get hard and poke her.
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+1 yFeel, yes. Sexual tension? I suppose it depends upon whether she is someone I'm dating or not.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yWell the comments just make me never wanna hug anyone again 😶😪
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duh!! wake up
Opinion Owner+1 y@Guido yeah.. i guess
Yes we do to both questions. The second one depending on who I'm hugging
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+1 yWe feel it, but unless I'm making out with her there is nothing sexual about it.
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+1 yYes we feel your boobs when you hug us. No matter what size they are.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMaybe, if it's a tight hug. Most girls aren't throwing around tight hugs though. I rarely ever get a hug like that from someone that isn't a sexual partner.
00 ReplyNot really - when I hug females our shoulders touch so their breasts never touch my chest
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+1 ydamn, i had the same question.. i wanted to ask women if they worry we feel them.. never thought a girl would ask !
00 ReplyHonestly I don't give much attention to boobs... I rather prefer great ass... my hands go to their booty by own. Haha
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+1 yYes, definitely! and something I've always wondered.. Can girls feel my penis getting erect when i hug them? its so embarassing.. hugging while trying to make sure your waists dont touch.. lol
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yes we can 😁
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