Is my ex using me?

[Anonymous]

I still love my ex but I’m starting to feel like i should cut him out of my life so tell me what you think. So about almost 2 years ago my ex texted me after not speaking for a year asking if i wanted to hook up he asked for weeks until he finally stopped texting then months later he posted with a girl kissing her with the caption “ya snooze ya lose” and then fast forward to now in April he asked again after not speaking for a year again but this time he only asked one time and now we haven’t spoke in months. Now he’s with a new girl that he got with in July which is only 3 months after he asked me to hook up again and i can see everything he posts because i still have him on everything which means he is posting her. I really think that it’s messed up to treat someone that you use to care about like this or still care about? i don’t really know how he feels, so do you think he’s using me and should I cut him off?

[Anonymous]

Lol how is he using you? You two are done. If you were sleeping w him, giving him money, letting him use your car, etc, I’d say he’s using you. He may be trying to make you jealous but from what I read no he’s not using you. You allow yourself to be in this situation by responding to his stupidity. So as long as you keep responding he’s going to keep doing the same. He’s only in it for sex, nothing more. So cut him off, block him, change your number, your email, etc. It’s like I tell my kids when they complain about their jobs. Either quit, find a new job, or stick it out but make a change as far as moving up or to a different department. Otherwise don’t complain if you’re not going to do a damn thing about it.

[Finchie40]

He clearly just wants to have sex with you and nothing more , so yes you should of deleted his ass the second you both broke up to begin with. Not only is he trying to use you , he is clearly using those other girls as well. Delete and block his ass period

[Anonymous]

Girl, he's an ex for a reason, leave him. He just wanted a booty call and thats it, hopefully he isn't toxic and just wants to play with you, i don't know him but this doesn't sound like a good idea

[YesterdaysChild]

I'm surprised you haven't already blocked him. But, maybe you just like playing games with him? 🤔🤔🤔

[sheikalana]

You don't know how he feels? He feels like he can do whatever he wants LOL. If you were my daughter I'd say cut him off immediately.

[Guido]

Cut him off and block him on all social media. He only wanted you as a fall back until he found someone new.

Ti. e to move on with your life and find a nice guy.

[Fireguy17]

Yeppers, he is using you.

Time to cut the cord and move on.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, it sounds like it.

[Iron_Man]

Sounds like he just wants sex

[spartan55]

How is he using you if you aren't hooking up?

[MaxUsefull]

Just run away from this guy

[butterly248]

Yeah sorry 😞

[jimmy2]

Yes it time to let go