Guys, why do I keep attracting men who don’t see themselves spending the rest of their lives with me?

[Anonymous]

They want to date me, but they always preempt that they’re only going to hurt me and/or leave eventually.

[scales_of_Libra]

they are attractive to. you as well. I would suggest that you shouldn't date until you have done self work on yourself. the people you attract is a reflection of who you are at that time

[summiter]

They sound like loosers. Do they want to date you just for the sex?

[Asker]

For the sex, companionship, experience, experiment… whatever it is they need that moment.

[summiter]

Not every guy wants to get into a long term relationship every time. They should just tell you their expectations before you get too attached. Has this happened to you a lot?

[Asker]

It has 😔

[Asker]

I’m the problem I guess 😔

[summiter]

Why do you say that?

[Asker]

Private messaged you!

[summiter]

sorry try again

[Jamie05rhs]

Not sure. Not enough information. Can you tell us a little about yourself?