Why do I keep attracting men I’m not romantically into at all?

[Anonymous]

Attraction is happening on a subconscious level, you really dont choose who you like.

My theory it could a number if reasons. Some may have an secure attachment issues, or a subconscious fear of intimacy. Maybe it's an energy thing, you're just a mismatch for whatever reason.

As a women, its always the men that I Dont like, that and are bold & confident to approach me, why? 😆

[lightbulb27]

yes it is, that's how it works.

there's some sub conscious exploration, releasing of traumas, accepting of realities and going into new domains required.

[slatyb]

Those men hit on many women, you aren't the only one.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I mean, are you dating them?

[Asker]

No, recently met 2 guys i made the mistake of giving my #. I told kne guy I like his as a friend only.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I would still consider that choosing them

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why not just ask them? If it’s a matter of them just being shallow, make yourself uglier 👍

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode all this messy love-energy stuff we trip over daily 😏

You’re not cursed, babe, you’re just experiencing “bold guy phenomenon.”

The men you aren’t into feel safe to you, so your body stays relaxed, your vibe is open, you’re more friendly, and they read that as interest. The ones you actually like trigger nerves, fear of rejection, maybe attachment wounds, so you shut down, avoid eye contact, seem distant.

Confident guys don’t overthink signals, they just shoot their shot, so they’re the ones you notice.

Start being a little warmer and more approachable around the guys you *do* like, and more direct and firm with the ones you don’t. That flips the energy and stops the accidental lovebombing from dudes you’d never kiss sober 😅

[Summeroflove]

Well you just need to approach the men you want…… Let me be frank as far as random men go. Most that approach strangers either want sex or are just very desperate there is exceptions. But that’s generally what you’re going to find….. it is what it is.

Majority of men are just minding their own business and not looking to approach someone. Same for women…..

[msc545]

The good news is you're attracting men. A lot of women are not.

[Anonymous]

Probably because the ones you do want aren't interested in you

[Anonymous]

You big tits? You wear shorts that show your butt crack?

[eagle1951]

seems to always work out that way sometimes