Why I’m not attracted to men?

[Anonymous]

I don’t feel attracted to men, I don’t get butterflies when I see a guy or think they are hot. Even if there’s one hot guy he is stuck up & don’t bother look at you. At a bar you will see beautiful women in tiny crop top showing legs boobs stomach & the men at bars will just be fat old with huge belly ugly. 😔 I don’t desire have sex with men either. I’m ugly too & men don’t ask be my boyfriend never so another reason y I lost attraction for men. I don’t want kiss a guy, nothing feel no emotion.

[SkyeSymes]

Well it's normal too feel this way is the first thing you should now i have already gone through Being attracted to no one to being attracted to men and then being attracted to women! Give yourself time to find you're identity!

Maybe you're a lesbian, Maybe not.

Just figure out what you want in life and what sexual attractions you have either way be true and proud of who you are there is someone for everyone out there sometimes it just takes time so give yourself that you deserve it.

hope it gets better for you!!

[Asker]

Men don’t like me men think I’m ugly no guy asks me to be his girlfriend never 😓

[Asker]

Wen I ask our guys I’m rejected.

[Asker]

Men are ugly wen I go to a bar all men are fat old beer belly and women r all naked showing boobs butt in tiny skirt or tight jeans and crop top. U never see hot men in every corner 😓

[SkyeSymes]

Sorry to hear you haven't found anyone yet!
There is ways to change this everyone has a sexual attraction towards someone.
Maybe try dating sites or meets some local areas could have some kind of dating thing.
Dating sites are a good way to explore and be matched with people who are interested in you just make sure you play it all safe and if you do meet try publicly first!
No one is ugly, We're all different unique beings! it's finding what you want and the right one for you i guess! confidence has a big part to play in love life feeling unconfident in yourself could really have impact on ones romantic goings maybe try spice yourself up do you're hair, Find make up looks that suit you try different things and im sure things will change for you put yourself out there more and you'll for sure find someone eventually best for things to go slow anyways least then you'll find someone you're looking for rather than rush into things and go down the path most pretty women end up down trust me it's not fun for them i see it a lot with my sisters slowly but surely.

[Asker]

Im ugly since I was 13 men reject me, nothing I do makes men drool race to ask to be my boyfriend. I’m ugly!

[Asker]

I even lost weight as no guy is inside my life seeing me daily meeting family so my clothes fit droopy like anorexic too

[Asker]

It’s like u like a guy but they all run away from u no one asks be your boyfriend so then u never touch a guy have live from guy nothing. So the attraction for men is gone

[SkyeSymes]

Well there is key factors here clearly you're not confident in yourself so you really do need to find what most you don't like and change that to begin with Do you're hair! Youtube make up looks there is techniques to make up that can have massive impacts on the way you look!! Most of these "Pretty" girls your talking off are not all that pretty without the make up trust me it changes your looks massively if you know what you're doing! There is ways to bring out the eyes, Make the nose smaller and generally change you're entire face and look! You'd be surprised if some of those girls showed you what they looked like when they removed the make up! Now to be completely honest with you It's not going to happen overnight and it's not going to happen if you are not aiming towards it happening you need to really want something to make it happen it can be achieved with hard work and progressing yourself towards the bigger picture! I personally prefer to be single i enjoy not having anyone else problems on my back to carry or worry about it's not all that bad seriously! you're thinking into it abit much! Just take the time you need and work towards achieving the right look that suits you... it's easier than you think just takes a lot of time and a lot of practice Youtube is the go to place for make up tutorials!

[SkyeSymes]

Losing weight isn't a bad thing lol people say i'm anorexic for weighing 98 pounds who cares do you and don't worry about anyone else's opinions given time and progress i'm sure you'll find the right one for you!

[Asker]

Guys like only fat women thick , if no guy will date me daily then I will never gain weight. I always dress up fix my hair. I’m rejected by guys since I was 13 now I’m 25 turning 26 next year!

[SkyeSymes]

I mean most guys i know of like skinnier girls xDD are you trolling? Feels like you are now. I have given lot's of advice here so make sure ya keep to it :) hope things will get better for ya! <3

[Bee-Hatch]

Maybe you're asexual and just not into people that way.


But it really sounds like you've some self esteem issues need working through.

[Guy13]

I think a counselor can help you figure some of those things out.

[Asker]

They don’t do shit I have had therapists laugh at me. I don’t like men PERIOD I have no attraction toward men

[Guy13]

Well, I guess you can move onto Girl Island... Or start a Commune called "GoGirlGo"

[Anonymous]

Cool! Maybe you're a lesbo? Go get some pussy!

[sirderpsalot123]

Ate you attracted to women?

[sirderpsalot123]

Are.

[Asker]

No but men don’t like me men think im ugly so I lost interest I can’t even look at a guy they run away fast all my life men reject me. Men only like tall hot women and I’m height of 5 year old ugly.

[Asker]

You go to bar and all men r fat old with beer belly I never see millions hot guys. U only see women in tiny crop top & showing stomach or legs while all men r fat n hideous. U never see million hot guys at bar like brad Pitt it’s just got girls and nasty fat old men.

[Asker]

Y there r hundreds hot girls at bars yet zero hot men? Like it’s extremely rare see hundreds hot guys. It’s always like rare women see a hot guy like it’s just one and not enough for all the women at the bars

[sirderpsalot123]

Well, I agree... women are nicer to look at. 😂

I don't know. Try dating sites.

[Asker]

But y there can’t be hundreds got men for women? Y there’s only hot women for men only?

[sirderpsalot123]

Are you trolling me lol

[Asker]

No I’m asking a question

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't know the answer. I don't know what you consider to be a "hot man". 3.97 billion men in this world, I'm sure you'll find someone.