Why do I attract older men?

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I'm not complaining about attracting older men there's definitely a lot of benefits to it but there's also quit a bit of social pressures that come with it when dating.

One of my co workers told me a while back but all the men upstairs in the office have a crush on me and i dont understand why, im just the little scrubber girl at work who cleans and works in the warehouse dressed in my scruffs so i didn't think much of it.

But whenever i come into the office to give them their post they are all very nice and polite to me and call me stuff like a darling and angel. These men aren't that much older than me they are more aged between 26 to 31. Im dating a 26 year old right now and i dont understand why he likes me so much sometimes. I worry about coming off immature but older men seem to have always been more easy for me to talk to and they appreciate me more and try to be understanding. They will constantly tell me im beautiful yet boys around my age tell me im ugly and annoying.

Knighted2170 · Accepted Answer

Some of that is going to infatuation. They like the idea of a young woman, but wouldn’t know what to do if you said yes to them asking you out.

Some older guys just want someone who is willing to have fun. Go to parties, concerts, do something crazy on the spur of the moment. Older women, in general, simply can’t do that. They have careers, and responsibilities, that prevent them from doing such things. There is also heavy social stigma to older women who do such things.

Older guys like women who are mature. Women in general who are mature, but have an edge about them, are very attractive. Regardless of age. It’s just some young women have that edge that guys look for.

Finally, it could just be innocent office flirting. They find you attractive, but not in a sexualized way.

Hope that helps.

MostPaloney23 · Accepted Answer

It's pretty normal. The older party often wants someone less set in their ways. Personally, I don't really keep anyone under 21 on my radar, but I'm okay if I found someone who was 26-27 to my 23.

At my point even a year of aging brings a lot of maturity differences. I had a massive crush one of my sister's best friends when I was 18 (she was 22), but feared that gap back then was too big. My 22 year old self was much different than 18. From meeting/talking different girls, I also found that a 21 and a 22 year old often carry themselves differently

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Older men hit on women in general. Past late 20s or so, be careful that they aren’t married, though. Take it slow.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

They like that they are more experienced. Guys your age are looking for that experience.

Jan_Classic · Answer

26-31 are not that old. If u attract older people who knows, maybe you look like 100$ stack =D.

Actually older men are very cocky and are not worth the time. Unless they can give u mountains of gold.

If u speak of young boys, they're often immature.

Iron_Man · Answer

They aren't that much older not a big deal at all lol. Would you rather date guys your age that are still in Junior college living with mama and daddy
always broke and immature and they use you for sex only? As far as older men liking you only I have no idea I have not seen a picture of you

Anonymous · Answer

Young guys are trying establish themselves when they haven't developed confidence yet they constantly try to break women down so that you always know they have the upper hand. These older guys can say these things to you because they're probaby doing this with 4 other ladies,

WhereAmI · Answer

If you wear the unicorn hoodie, it'll make them think twice ya know 😳

pizzalovershouse · Answer

go to events where older guys go to like community charity events

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

It's normal just like a lot of older men liking younger women.

Slim57 · Answer

Older men go for younger women and women go for older men, usually anyway, I actually prefer older myself

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason older men attract younger women. It's natural.

Secret6620 · Answer

Maybe you have an old soul. 💜💚💙

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Older men between 26 and 31... are you joking? :D

PrincessGrail · Answer

Cause you look young and innocent

legalboxers · Answer

thats how it normally goes...

Zerstörer · Answer

I think its more that men like younger girls.

TallAnon · Answer

Cute and petite helps 😊

Guanfei · Answer

Because you're magnificent, that's why.

Dantheman101 · Answer

Cause your young and have a decent figure I guess

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