Why do I attract older men?

[Alice2398]

I'm not complaining about attracting older men there's definitely a lot of benefits to it but there's also quit a bit of social pressures that come with it when dating.

One of my co workers told me a while back but all the men upstairs in the office have a crush on me and i dont understand why, im just the little scrubber girl at work who cleans and works in the warehouse dressed in my scruffs so i didn't think much of it.

But whenever i come into the office to give them their post they are all very nice and polite to me and call me stuff like a darling and angel. These men aren't that much older than me they are more aged between 26 to 31. Im dating a 26 year old right now and i dont understand why he likes me so much sometimes. I worry about coming off immature but older men seem to have always been more easy for me to talk to and they appreciate me more and try to be understanding. They will constantly tell me im beautiful yet boys around my age tell me im ugly and annoying.

[Knighted2170]

Some of that is going to infatuation. They like the idea of a young woman, but wouldn’t know what to do if you said yes to them asking you out.

Some older guys just want someone who is willing to have fun. Go to parties, concerts, do something crazy on the spur of the moment. Older women, in general, simply can’t do that. They have careers, and responsibilities, that prevent them from doing such things. There is also heavy social stigma to older women who do such things.

Older guys like women who are mature. Women in general who are mature, but have an edge about them, are very attractive. Regardless of age. It’s just some young women have that edge that guys look for.

Finally, it could just be innocent office flirting. They find you attractive, but not in a sexualized way.

Hope that helps.

[MostPaloney23]

It's pretty normal. The older party often wants someone less set in their ways. Personally, I don't really keep anyone under 21 on my radar, but I'm okay if I found someone who was 26-27 to my 23.

At my point even a year of aging brings a lot of maturity differences. I had a massive crush one of my sister's best friends when I was 18 (she was 22), but feared that gap back then was too big. My 22 year old self was much different than 18. From meeting/talking different girls, I also found that a 21 and a 22 year old often carry themselves differently

[Anonymous]

Older men hit on women in general. Past late 20s or so, be careful that they aren’t married, though. Take it slow.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, 5 years isn’t really “older” once you get past this particular life stage.

[Dantheman101]

Older = sexy as

[VIVANT]

They like that they are more experienced. Guys your age are looking for that experience.

[Alice2398]

Im not very experienced at all

[VIVANT]

Right older guys like that I experience it makes them feel younger

Younger guys went to feel more experienced

[Jan_Classic]

26-31 are not that old. If u attract older people who knows, maybe you look like 100$ stack =D.

Actually older men are very cocky and are not worth the time. Unless they can give u mountains of gold.

If u speak of young boys, they're often immature.

[Iron_Man]

They aren't that much older not a big deal at all lol. Would you rather date guys your age that are still in Junior college living with mama and daddy
always broke and immature and they use you for sex only? As far as older men liking you only I have no idea I have not seen a picture of you

[Anonymous]

Young guys are trying establish themselves when they haven't developed confidence yet they constantly try to break women down so that you always know they have the upper hand. These older guys can say these things to you because they're probaby doing this with 4 other ladies,

[WhereAmI]

If you wear the unicorn hoodie, it'll make them think twice ya know 😳

[pizzalovershouse]

go to events where older guys go to like community charity events

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's normal just like a lot of older men liking younger women.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh i thought you're asking why you get attracted to older men. Well here is my response. It is just like how there are a lot of older guys attracting young girls and that is common because it is how our brain is hardwired.

[Slim57]

Older men go for younger women and women go for older men, usually anyway, I actually prefer older myself

[Anonymous]

Same reason older men attract younger women. It's natural.

[Secret6620]

Maybe you have an old soul. 💜💚💙

[andreasderjuengere]

Older men between 26 and 31... are you joking? :D

[Alice2398]

Im 21, im not saying they are old just a lot older compared to me

[PrincessGrail]

Cause you look young and innocent

[legalboxers]

thats how it normally goes...

[VIVANT]

Isn’t it just..

[Zerstörer]

I think its more that men like younger girls.

[TallAnon]

Cute and petite helps 😊

[Guanfei]

Because you're magnificent, that's why.

[Dantheman101]

Cause your young and have a decent figure I guess