Why do I always seem to attract older men?

[Anonymous]

When I was 17, I would always get hit on my by older men usually around the age of 25-40. I didn't have a boyfriend at that age and "guys my age" never seem to make a move on me. I always got the "oh you look very mature for your age". Ever since then I've been getting hit on my older men 40+. I will admit though, that ever since I was 17 it made me feel so desirable and sexy that I used to love it... and I still do. Yea, I would kinda admit that It seems like I have daddy issues but me and my dads relationship has been up and down for years. So am I the one fueling the fire or is it just by cause (on the male behalf)?

[JPresidente]

Probably because you still possess good looks, have a great sense of humor and have your life in order. Those are all traits that would attract an older man that probably has similar traits. You also probably have an outgoing personality that is relatable to people of all ages.

[Ironic_Method]

There could be valid reasons or it could be completely random. As long as it's not negatively affecting your life, go for it. Just be careful about it and vet carefully.

[SoftCliff]

Maybe younger guys are/were too shy to approach you and lack confidence compared to older guys

Anyway, age is just a number. The best-looking guy I know, is older than me

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe older men have better taste in women!

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Older guy, younger woman

IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CLICHE

It's become tired

My mom and dad beat that, cliche. she's older, and they have been married 35+ today is their anniversary 8/17/1985

[Iron_Man]

I have no idea why older men are attracted to you at that age but most adults in life the women like older men

[EnglishEuropean]

Every girl attracts older men. You just have to be open to it.

[Anonymous]

You are probably giving older guys positive signals and they react accordingly.

[Avicenna]

It's probably how you carry yourself.

[Asker]

Like the way I dress?

[Avicenna]

Possibly, but more likely it's how confident yet approachable you seem. Do you come across as very confident?

[thatssuppy190]

Because ur hotter than girls your age

[driven159]

just enjoy yourself and not over think it

[Heolurt]

Wealth, most definitely Wealth.

[jimmy2]

Ohh baby where are you

[Carriage95]

Because they’re pedos

[goodgirlsteven]

If these men aren't after under 18 year olds there is no need to call them pedophiles! they are men who are attracted to beautiful girls no need to start name calling!

[goodgirlsteven]

As long as their 18 and over guys have a right if they are attracted! no reason to call the pedophiles! quit being a O'L bitty Men are Men and they can be attracted to young beautiful girls. what you want them to shut off their desires and emotions because you find it wrong! no reason to name call especially PEDOphiles! which I understand those are children! off limits do not touch! but 18 and over go for it! i Say

[pass_the_celery98]

@Carriage95 why is it ok for woman to date a younger man and she’s viewed as a “cougar”. This stupid nonsense has to end. If a man is pursuing a woman 18+ and above, the legal age, Why should the man be viewed as disgusting. Hypocrisy at its finest.