Why am I slowly becoming more attracted to much older men?

[Puppystarfish23]

I've always been attracted to older men my boyfriend is 5 years older than me and is almost 30. I don't have daddy issues before anyone suggests that I have a very healthy, happy relationship with my dad, he's a good man and had always been there for me. I'm very lucky to have him as a dad even if we both annoy each other sometimes.

When I was a little girl I never really fancied other boys my age I always dreamt of the type of men I saw on my mum's TV shows she'd watch or a Disney prince or a family friend and everyone just thought it was cute and funny seeing a little girl asking a older man to be her boyfriend now looking back the early 2000s was strange wasn't it 🤔

When I got to being a teenager I just always crushed on the male teachers and would try and stay behind after class to hang out.

Basically I always knew from a very early age but I was 100% into older men but not as old as it's getting now.

And when I say older men I don't mean the creepy old men on this site before you trying getting into my DMS. I mean like attractive older men in there late 30s to 40s. I don't know what it is about them I think it's because they just seem so together and comfortable with themselves.

I especially like bold guys for some reason don't know why and they always smell so nice and look so clean.

there's this one guy at my work whose a total dilf and all my friends know I think that and my boyfriend even makes fun of me for it.

This guy is probably early 40s and he's so well spoken, polit, witty and handsome I find myself checking him out at work.

I don't know what it is about older men but I just love them.

I'm even watching desperate housewives at the moment and one of the love interest at moment is to die for but he's the type my man my mum should be crushing on not me

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1 y

I think it has a lot to do with men my own age they just don't have what past generations of men have. They are either to shy and scared, watching Andrew Tate or doing cringe af tik tok dances.

Older men are just so out with it and open. If they think your pretty they'll just say it without being creepy about it.

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1 y

The other day the work dilf called me a "good girl" for doing over time 🤣 I could have died

[kylee2437]

I think it’s normal to be honest. It has nothing to do with daddy issues, it just has to do with the fact that men are mostly in their prime when they are in their 30s-40s. Daddy issues is going for men that are like 45-60+ because you are attracted to the dad personality they give you

[Puppystarfish23]

Also a lot of younger men are waxing there chest hair and wearing skinny jeans and that's just not attractive to me at all

[kylee2437]

@Puppystarfish23 trust me there’s very few guys I’m attracted to that are our age lol

[MrCommodore]

I think most people find older people attractive, albeit to a lesser extent than you maybe.

I sometimes find older women attractive, I mean women that are 10-15 years older, but generally I like women around my own age or within 10 years.

[loveslongnails]

Because your current boyfriend won't commit and doesn't know what he wants, while older men do.

[Puppystarfish23]

My boyfriend will commit. Just because you read like half of my other take you think you know. My boyfriend is also going on 30 which I also wrote on this post. Please learn to read before making dumb accusations

[loveslongnails]

I did read it. What's the bottom line? It's not what you want.

[Puppystarfish23]

How do you know it's not what I want

[loveslongnails]

Is there an "accusation" of any kind in my statement? Why are you bristling so much - strike a nerve? Apparently I read another of your posts about said boyfriend, but I don't recall that at the moment, OR... I answered the wrong post. Seems like I answered the wrong post.

[eagle1951]

we've been there done that and now know out to do it

[tallblondejohm]

Because there mature know how to satisfy u in bed. Treat you good. More gentlemen traits