Why am I sexually more attracted to older men?

Question

I always find myself thinking of old men and I even flirt with them

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because you are probably attracted to the maturity and the wisdom of an older guy , Most younger girls’ like older guys’ for that reason , and a lot of older guys’ including myself prefer a younger girl , it kind of balances out well, from both sides. Not that age really matters , the chemistry a d connection you share with someone is what matters. When I date younger girls’ younger girls’ usually tell me they love how I listen to them and love my maturity and wisdom. They are drawn to my personality and knowledge they enjoy the conversations we have together. I am drawn to her beauty and her personality as well , she usually treats me with kindness and respect and doesn’t hesitate to keep me satisfied in the bedroom , she looks up at me instead of down at me , she feels safe and protected by me because I am not into games and drama , I treat her the same way i want to be treated in return. Most females’ love to be submissive to a guy she looks up to So again it works both ways for the most part. It’s like we compliment each other and value each other. So when I meet a beautiful younger girl , that treats me with kindness and respect , and her and I have great chemistry and connection, that’s all that matters to me

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Sexually is just lust it’s nothing but a fetish or a link for you unfortunately. You should be genuinely looking for love especially because older especially widowed men are needing genuine love and connection most are too old for just having sex, im not saying there aren’t dirty old pervs. But the men who are wise and good older guys don’t wanna waste their time with nonsense.

Please, just focus on yourself until you’re ready to have a big girl relationship because most of your relationships have probably failed. Because they’re sexually based relationships with nothing else going for them.

Most of the players, bad boys, fuck boys, etc never wanted anything serious while the gentleman found good wives while the weirdo men are just desperately biting at any snake in the grass that will bite. So that’s your options. Nothing else is working out I guess you’re just gonna go get the old men.

Oh yeah have rub my hemorrhoid cream in!!! Oh babe I took my viagra ready for fun! Zzzzzzzz gramps took his medicine

itsannalee · Accepted Answer

Because girls brain generally mature faster than man and. And older man represent something that women are attracted to, because older men tend to represent security, maturity, stability, safety, and these are characteristics that women are attracted to.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I don't know. But if you find out why let me know because I've always been in the same boat.

ohsheeT · Answer

It's just probably means that you're mature and you can see the difference between guys your age and older guys on the way that they treat you respect you I mean and just do everything really..

I don't think there's anything wrong with that

The guys that I work with their wives and them are probably about your same age and they've tried to hook me up with a couple of their friends.

And their wives tell me it's because they want their husbands to hang out with me more so they learn how to treat a woman which I think is funny but but I understand what they're saying LOL

hahahmm · Answer

Because you are biologically female and fundamentally females are attracted to masculinity & males are attracted to femininity. The old school traditional guys were more masculine than the modern ideas: soy boy who is a total simp, groveling before women and/or unable to protect/provide for his woman. If you ran into a guy your own age who is masculine you'll be attracted to that.

On the flip side, most women today are more masculine acting and that's a turn off to a lot of guys too.

RebelinSteel · Answer

That is just how you are, some people have a hard attraction to red heads, to blondes etc, to large breasts, the majority do not have hard attractions and it’s more balanced, yours focuses on older guys, obviously at some point that will reduce.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

If you really want to find some questions, and maybe answers, to questions below the level of your question, then,  It will be long, uncomfortable, controversial and possibly expensive :D

Berethor · Answer

How old are they? men usually date women who are younger than them, so it pretty normal.

Anonymous · Answer

Hello mama what’s up? Lol jk ok first question most people will ask, is your dad in your life? Second it could be their maturity. It could also be that they’re more stable, treat you better. Maybe even more in tuned w their feelings. Maybe they’re more confident. Know what they want compared to younger men. Settled down. It could be a lot of things.

Anonymous · Answer

Nature. My girlfriend was a freshman in high-school when I was a senior. The attraction between us was very obvious. Of course it didn't hurt that she was a cheerleader.

Bricealan · Answer

@carmen0zxx At 24, that surprises me... I think there must be men your age or close to it, that are mature enough for you to date?  I always thought women your age prefer men close to their age?

Easy1134 · Answer

I think it's great that you are. I've dated many younger women and they usually say that guys their age are immature, or that they desire the benefits of being with a more financially secure man.

bowenw · Answer

It is not uncommon and you cannot help who you are attracted to. You may find older men are more stable, less likely to behave immaturely, and are usually experienced sexually. I suggest you continue to do what makes you happy.

Billlewis · Answer

That could be due to any number of reasons, not the least of which is often referred to as a. 'Daddy Complex'

Account · Answer

I can't make garbage assumptions without knowing you. All I know is that I do NOT relate.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

No idea.. I never seen the appeal of old wrinkly balls.. but to each their own lol

nawtee_me · Answer

There is certainly nothing wrong with us older folk. Age is just a number and as long as both are willing there is nothing wrong with an age difference. I tip my hat to the man that you find….

stratford · Answer

Lucky guys - what fantasies do you have about them?

Ironco · Answer

Because we know how to eat pussy and finger that thing in ways you can only wish for... it comes with time and practice, guys.

Juxtapose · Answer

I don't know. Maybe you think they're more mature and from a generation you like?

gag6474 · Answer

i think because older men have their lives together for the most part

msc545 · Answer

Do you really need a reason for this? Just enjoy it.

elaphe · Answer

We all have our preferences. I don't think there has to be a "reason" for it.

OddBeMe · Answer

Daddy issues. Lack of confidence in attaining your own financial security.

andy530 · Answer

It might have to do with them knowing what they want, clear communication and expectations, etc

abc3643 · Answer

As an old man, I will simply say "God bless you!"

Amy10223 · Answer

Men as old as what? 40s? 50s? 60s?

lightbulb27 · Answer

how old? Like over 100?

normalice · Answer

Because our nipples are furry

TurboAnon · Answer

Daddy issues. May such cases!

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Money, power, stability, to name a few.

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

It's a preference. I know lots of women are.

Anonymous · Answer

most women prefer older men

CubaPirate · Answer

Because we're and experienced

Anonymous · Answer

Grampy issues.😆

hotplan007 · Answer

I mean it's perfectly natural

Anonymous · Answer

Because they have money 💰

jahaims · Answer

Usually daddy issues

noohair · Answer

Do as you desire.

MasterKS · Answer

Experience matters!

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