Is this guy speak for ”you’re not my type” ?

[Anonymous]

If guy says to me ”it was very nice to talk to you and get to know you” is he interested?

We had been chatting for some time and met once.
He also said ” you’re very nice person and you have a good heart” but nothing about my appearance.. During the date he couldn’t even make eye contact

[Drumlin2001]

Did you want him to judge you by your looks? Metoo# kinda puts mem off that.
It dosent feel good in the way he's written it. But maybe he's just a nervous person around women

[Asker]

Why could’nt he make eye contact with me? I thought if guy is nervous and attracted that’s when they avoid eye contact

[Drumlin2001]

Yeah. Particularly if he's not very experienced with women he maybe avoiding eye contact if he's attracted to you.

[Asker]

Is attraction the only reason guy would avoid eye contact?

[Drumlin2001]

Some people just aren't comfortable with eye contact.
The easiest thing to do, rather than asking strangers on the interweb would be to just ask him

[Asker]

He said that it was very nice to get to know me but our future goals are different and that’s why we shouldn’t continue to date. Since he didn’g want second date I’m confused about his behaviour

[boggboss]

Wtf are u talking about guys have been told speaking on appearance is a red flag and now if they don't it shows they are not intrested

[Asker]

Other comments here are saying that he doesn’t seem interested and it’s guy word for ”I’m not attracted to you”

[boggboss]

No 1 girls comment said this lol if this is what u honestly think then fair enough and move on but do u not see how impossible it is to date at that point if he was to comment on your looks it would be persisted as him only caring about your looks

[Asker]

Ok I get ur point

[Akam93]

Yikes. I hate to say it but I don't think he's interested.

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[Asker]

Why could’nt he make eye contact with me? I thought if guy is nervous and attracted that’s when they avoid eye contact

[MaxUsefull]

Maybe appearance isn't important to him, but I think it's strange because men are very visual

[Asker]

He’s muslim so maybe it’s because of that

[MaxUsefull]

Muslim? Just run from him

[Asker]

I’m muslim too lol

[MaxUsefull]

Poor girl

[In_Trance]

You need to ask better questions

[Asker]

Like what questions?

[spartan55]

Something other than why this guy you went on ONE DATE with rejected you.