Is it rude that my boyfriend calls someone else big nose when he knows I have a big nose?

[Anonymous]

It could be we watching a movie or a show and he mention something about the show and say “ the guy with the big nose “ he probably doesn’t say it in a rude way but it makes me feel kind of weird or uncomfortable bc he knows I have a big nose.

[_Maya_]

Possibly. I would say more insensitive than rude. You mention that he doesn't say it in a rude way. He is probably just not aware that he is being insensitive and people that are insecure with the size of their nose would find that rude or whatever. I don't think he is doing it on purpose and you probably notice it more because it sounds like you are a little insecure with your nose. I am not saying that is a bad thing. We all have stuff we don't like about ourselves. That is just your thing.

[Anonymous]

Could be construed as rude. But maybe your nose isn’t as big as you think it is. I don’t know. Can’t say w out comparing it to someone else w a big nose. Especially in comparison to who he’s saying has a big nose compared to yours. At the same time it may be something he’s overlooking in you because he has feelings for you. Many of us let things go when it comes to someone we live that we may not have necessarily found attractive. My sister-in-law didn’t like her husband in the beginning cause he had a big nose.