I’ve tried to tell him that it hurts me and makes me anxious but he says he’s just being honest. Every single time we fight without fail he will imply if I don’t change my behaviour he will have no other choice but to break up with me. EVERY SINGLE TIME.
And an example of a fight we tend to have is me making a joke and him not understanding it and then I explain it wrong so he gets annoyed or I piss him off any other small way. I don’t do anything bad like cheat or lie. Like does that warrant break up threats? Is this how most couples fights go?