What is it with gag, why can't I just have a convo about sex without the dude pushing sexting onto it?

[Anonymous]

Like every single time, I'll be chatting or have asked a question without anon I'll get 5-10 pms (yes I know there's a setting to turn it off and make it so you both have to follow one another to pm). But then you can miss out on some cool and enlightening conversations which again I have had a few and since I rarely like someone enough to actually follow them, I have way more follows than anything else.

But we have a good convo, learn a few more things about the opposite sex that I didn't know before hand. And then why can't it just be left like that. Pretty much every time it's let's sext. If you say no that's it, it's the last you hear of them.

I mean they do realise I could easily be a dirty 60 year old guy hiding behind a fake profile. I mean that's the thoughts going through my mind - this could be a woman.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ll be honest. When I started gag over two years ago it was exciting to be able to make new connections and when horny talk about sex and sext with others. So I get what you are saying and can understand those requests if the guys are wanting to masturbate and chat. But that got old after a while and I started to see the girls didn’t put much effort into it and it became boring. So I pretty much cut it out and just started to have casual conversations that could involve Sex or music or travel mixed in. I


n my experience lots of girls want to talk about a specific crush or past situation and when I open up and ask about other parts of life the trail off as you said with the guys. So I’m guessing they are here to use PMs for validation and not actually wanting to have a real conversation.


That’s been my experience and it varies depending on the person as some are fun to talk to and carry on chats over time


Does that help?

[boggboss]

Because its the Internet and many guys on here are sexually frustrated and any girl that gives them attention they think means they will want to sext pretty normal stuff happens on most sites

[VictorMachiavelli]

A site like this attracts a lot of sexually frustrated, socially awkward guys. They're happy to sext with a woman they haven't even seen and don't even know for sure if she's real because they're desperate for any kind of sexual attention.

[DryGermanGuy]

The two or three times I got sexted here, was from girls! 😂🤪 Legitimate girls, that is.

[Nikki1989]

Men on g@g are like that, sadly.

[LavLavLuv]

Can relate lmao