Why my guy friends make sex jokes that include me?

[NanaKy]

hey! My group of friends includes guys and girls, some of them are single but some of them are taken. I don't like anyone and I am 100% sure that no one like me either. I am a shy girl, just like the rest of the girls, generally I don't talk too much, I am pretty much mature (I think) and I am not nothing special.. I don't talk about sex or my personal life to my friends. Anyway, there are two of my friends (the one is taken - his is in a relationship for the past 5 years), that always make fun of me, and they always making jokes about having sex with me! I am not mad at them, I know that they are not serious and I know that this is just a joke. I find it funny, I always laugh, I don't really mind , and I definitely don't think that those two friends like me. I am just wondering (pure curiosity) why my guy friends make sex jokes including me and only me and don't do it with the rest of the girls? OK some of them are taken indeed but still! they don't make jokes with the one who are single.. is it my fault? why do you think that this is happening?

[markacealps]

I think it is because of your nature you are being so shy that's why they are taking you for granted. You should oppose them once or twice. If they stop it its fine otherwise you should come out from their group. They are trying to provoke you, but this is damaging your status in the group and in society as well. Try to avoid them and strictly tell them you don't like it. Ask your close friends to take your favour and stop those bad boys. I feel, you should leave their friendship and join other people and friends. They will not only damage your image but they will make you mentally week also. You need to take action against them.

[NanaKy]

I appreciate your answer and your advice! But I just wanted to make it clean that I don't mind it at all.

[Distant]

First of all, you're attractive. That means the guys who you think are "100%" not into you are most likely into you. When guys make sexual jokes, especially in this context, it's usually just for fun but almost always means they would be willing to actually have sex with you if the opportunity should arise.

[kangaru]

my guy friend also liked to joke like that to me in the past but now he is more mature especially becoming a daddy he didn't talk to me that way anymore

[Cottoncandydreams]

They secretly want to have sex with you.

[Cromartie]

Because they know you won't take it seriously.

[red324]

it's just a guys immature way of flirting.

[SaltandVinegar]

they want to get inside!