Is he jealous that I was on my phone?

[Anonymous]

I was hanging out with a guy I have been seeing for months. We were talking and hanging out when all of a sudden I had checked my phone to see if I had any messages. The guy started acting weird. He was ignoring me when I was talking to him. So I just left his house. I also noticed when I am in my phone he’s always looking over to see what I am doing. Is he jealous because I was on my phone?

[Oliverlogan263]

That's definitely some jealous vibes he was giving off. A few things that make me think that:

- He peeped over at your phone like multiple times - homie was definitely curious what/who you were checking.

- Then when you went on it, dude straight up started ignoring you and acting funny. Major overreaction if it was just a quick look.

- You've been seeing him for months now so he probably catching feels. That's when dudes can get intimidated by other dudes snapping you or whatever.

- Also some guys get all pouty when they feel like they're not getting your full attention in the moment. Phones be a trigger for that.

If I was you, I'd call him out on it. Like straight up ask "Yo what was with you ignoring me when I looked at my phone? You jealous or something?"

Make him admit what's up so you know where you stand. Don't let homie play it off either - tell him you saw the vibes. Good way to see how he responds and if he can handle when you live your life too.

Jealousy so early is usually bad news, but could also mean he really digging you so keep that in mind too. Get to the bottom of it!

[Anonymous]

I don’t think he was jealous. Probably more annoyed. I mean if you were w a dude you really liked, how would that make you feel if he was always on his phone? Probably make you feel as though he wasn’t really into you.

[Anonymous]

When being on your phone is more important than human interaction you deserve to be alone.

[Asker]

L o l

[BigDog1989]

It's not cool to check your phone while hanging out with someone