So I met this guy on tinder n things were moving quickly n going pretty well He was flirting with me I never went on a date with him but he ended up telling me that he met a girl in a bar he can’t stop thinking about? Why is this? ^ prior to this I had told him about a coworker I have a crush on and he had replied with “chill out please”
Is he being honest or trying to make me jealous?
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It is difficult to determine his true intentions without knowing more about the situation and his behavior. However, it is possible that he is being honest about his feelings for the other girl. It is also possible that he is trying to make you jealous or testing your interest in him. Regardless, it is important to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and expectations in any situation and to trust your intuition. If things are moving quickly and you feel uncertain about the relationship, it may be best to take some time to get to know each other better before moving forward.
He had stopped replying to me for two days prior to this and said he was taking a break from bumble
Yet he’s still on the apps I see so if this girl is real he hasn’t settled for her yet
If you're not sure about his intentions or feelings towards you and you feel uncertain about the relationship, it may be best to take some time to reassess your feelings and expectations. It's important to communicate with him openly and honestly if you decide to continue pursuing the relationship. You could say something like: "Hey, I appreciate your honesty about the other girl, but I'm feeling a bit uncertain about where things are going between us. I'd like to take some time to get to know you better and see where things go. How do you feel about that?"
Could be either could be both
How can u say things are going well when u are talking about other men u like to him 😑