Does this mean he doesn’t find me attractive?

[Anonymous]

Last night me and my partner were taking selfies
We been together 4 years
He uploaded one of the pictures of us on social media and on his facebook stories too
So he can see who view it too

Then he asked me
“Babe… we look like a good couple right?
And i said “good as in?
And he replied “as in good looking couple…


Why would he ask me that?
He cares what people think of us?
He doesn't find me attractive?

Yes he doesn't find you attractive

No it doesn't mean he's not attracted to you

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that people's motivations for asking such questions can vary. Your partner's question doesn't necessarily indicate that he doesn't find you attractive. It's possible that he asked because he values your relationship and is proud of it, or he may be seeking reassurance or validation from you. It doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't find you attractive, but rather, he might be curious about how you both appear to others or simply looking for positive feedback about your relationship. It's essential to have open communication with your partner to better understand their intentions and feelings.

[knottywriter]

Have you considered he may have been wondering if he looked bad next to you?

[Blueeyes81]

Take a break from your thoughts.

He simply meant that you two look good together.

[Asker]

It was his idea to take selfie and put it up
He wouldn't have done that right?

[Blueeyes81]

Take a break. You are trying to take something so simple and innocent and turn it into a mountain.