Men, do you like to show off your wife/girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Either taking her out or showing off pics if she's not around

Yess I love to show off my wife/girlfriend

Nah I like to keep her for my eyes only

Something else/I'm a woman/see results

[Metallsturm]

Taking her out and showing off her pics are 2 different things.

When I take a girl out, I take her for mutual experience, not to advertise her. For the same reason, I don't show off her pictures, nor would tolerate her showing off her own pictures to some strangers. If she would proceed to show off her photos that I disapprove of anyway, then she may advertise herself as much as she likes, as now she's single and indeed for grabs.

While a quote you have in your picture was made by a narcissistic woman, who refuses to take off her "for sale" advertising sign while being in relations. No wonder that she's over 50 and single.

[Asker]

I don't understand how a human being could advertise themselves?

[Metallsturm]

Women know that men are visual creatures and a woman's beauty is the primary thing that attracts men, unlike many other things that men may have that attract women. By "showing off" pictures of a woman, a man is essentially bragging that he has something that others don't have. If we'd speak about cars, showing off a car to another man may drive him to get the same car. Women, however, are each unique (unlike cars), so he can't just go and get the same one. So essentially by "showing off" a woman, it's an open invitation to other men to come and take her, which is essentially stupid, as someone may just do it. Sure, she can be loyal and whatnot, but just like when it comes down to cars, I wouldn't park my Bugatti in a hood. Not that I distrust locks and anti-theft system, I distrust hoodlums. So why would I show her off? And for what?

This idea of "showing off" your partner is entirely woman's thing, hence the narcissistic quote from that woman in your picture; when men meet, they don't flex what kind of wife they have -- we don't even discuss them. We shake hands and flex what kind of job they have. Yet it's women who flex to each other whether they're married and, most importantly, to whom. A woman married to, say, DiCaprio would always flex it, while DiCaprio would never flex with his wife.

[Asker]

You are definitely wrong about that. Some men show off their wives to their friend group. It's always been a thing with all of the friends my husband has. As a woman I could literally care less but he loves showing me off. Keeps pics in his hat for this reason lol.
And wtf it's not opening anything to other men. It's just for fun

[Metallsturm]

As for "advertising", by showing off your pictures online, especially provocative ones, in the age of the internet for the whole world to see, check this out:
Imagine if a woman in the 1960s, while already having a partner, when the internet didn't exist, would take a few photos of herself, make several billions of copies of them and would travel around the world sticking her photo with her home address on every windshield, every corner and every tree, sending it to every newspaper in the world -- would that be considered advertising yourself, despite being in relations? My argument that absolutely anyone would agree that it is (unless it's a grand champion in mental gymnastics), just minus the internet -- hence no need to travel, nor having your address, as DMs exist now.
Now, since the internet nowadays allows to do exactly that, sharing your provocative photos on the internet is exactly that -- advertising yourself for a potential better partner (richer, taller, whatever the hell woman is seeking). If you want to present yourself as if you're single, then go ahead and be single.

[Asker]

The opposite way I've never shown off my husband like ever 😂

[Asker]

Simply showing a pic of yourself doesn't make anyone seem single. That's just ridiculous

[Metallsturm]

Well, I dunno why your husband does that; in any case, men in general don't do that, nor like that. Perhaps some may do it, sure, but most don't. If he goes out with his wife and meets his friends, then yes, it's obviously normal to introduce her. However, simply taking her photos and showing it to others is odd, to say the least, as overwhelming majority of men seldom care who another man has as a wife.

[Metallsturm]

> Simply showing a pic of yourself doesn't make anyone seem single. That's just ridiculous

Agree. Hence why I said "provocative".

[Asker]

He started carrying the pics cause so many people would ask to see me. Also ask to see the kids as well.

[Asker]

Provocative or not isn't a factor here. It's any pics

[Juxtapose]

People are not perfectly impervious to cheating so be wary of sharing your partner excessively. You could end up putting them in a situation where they are in a compromised mental state and make a big mistake that you won't forgive them for.

I know there are incredibly strong-willed people out there who would rather kill themselves then cheat but good luck finding one of those.

[Asker]

Well I didn't mean sharing just showing off like visually

[Juxtapose]

Oh yeah that's what I meant. If I have a super hot lover and I parade her around then I am inviting people to swoop in and try to take her. No man or woman is completely bulletproof against temptation.

[Asker]

True but even without showing off temptation can still be there

[Juxtapose]

Yeah, I would just try to make it easier for my lover to stay loyal rather than harder if possible while not being some paranoid weirdo.

[TonyMetal___86]

If i was married than i pick b but ofc i'd like her to shine but in respectful and for sure not posting her pictures here and there cause she will be only mine forever but yes i will never be ashamed of her, when a couple gets married,. god makes them one, which means if a man is ashamed of his wife than he's ashamed of himself...

[DrewJohnson]

I definitely want to show her off. In public and pics when she not around. However, she likes to dress modest and the sexy pics are for me only. She'd be so pissed if showed them to others.

[Asker]

Well not necessarily sexy pics. Could just be pics where she looks good

[DrewJohnson]

I do show those off. And talk about what an amazing person/woman she is!

[midnightmoon05]

I am not a man…

my man takes me out (we went to a day spa yesterday) and treats me well when we have alone time…we have quality time together…what others think, see, feel about our relationship is not important to us.
he tells others about my qualities and how I treat him.

[elizamichale1]

My partner loves showing me off.. he says he is so proud to hav me he loves to show me off n making other jealous hehe n he also shows my pics to others... hell he has my naked pic as his phone's wallpaper

[Asker]

Awh cute he keeps a wallpaper of you

[elizamichale1]

Oh yess... he changes it frequently but its always either my topless pic or a full nude

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for mho honey

[TCredo]

I would not say it's something I do purposely per se - but yes, I happily show her off like when we go to a function for my work - she always impresses people with her personality.

And, very much enjoy when we get dressed up and she attracts some eyes :) Happened recently at a wedding out of town - was for a younger couple - reception had lots of guys in their mid-to-late 20's and I noticed more than a few checking her out in her dress. Had me grinning inside a little as we had fucked before the reception while getting ready - and I knew we were going to again after the reception :)

[chiarmoo]

Love to show off a girlfriend who enjoys it. My last ex loved to be shown off. She was much younger and had an amazing body. Took her to the beach wearing the tiniest microbikinis, walked her in crowded streets in miniskirt with no panties or very tight tanktop with no bra. This really got her worked up and aroused. She became even more daring in showing off after a while. I also started posting her nude pics, some very explicit on a website. She often went there to read guys comments.

Other gfs didn't like it and therefore I didn't feel the desire of doing it.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

There will be varying opinions on how to show off your wife, but I think showing happiness when you are together in public, and just with your own family is a great example to present to the world!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

How she dresses is up to her😊. She's pretty classy

[ProbablyClueless]

I used to enjoy that kind of thing, but all the women I've dated have really hated expressing affection and generally doing couples stuff like that... My dating experiences have really sucked the joy and intrigue out of love for me.

[madhatters4]

showing off pics? no. that seems strange

take her out? sure we go out. but frankly it's not to show her off, it just to have fun and go out

[Asker]

Why is that strange? People show off their partners often through pics on like on social media

[madhatters4]

because it basically means that your relationship is validated by the public rather than just how you feel. as if you don't "show them off" you are somehow not a legit relationship or proud of your relationship

[madhatters4]

i take my wife out all the time, dinner, trips, dates, whatever. but it's not to show her off. it's to spend valuable time with the person i love

[midnightmoon05]

The difference between young and shallow relationships vs. mature and inner deeper/caring relationships.

[Kelly6]

My husband loves to show me off in person or my sexy nude pictures to his buddies

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Mmmmmph got any nude pics?

[turnpost]

So your husband gets off by his friend getting off on your nude pics. Is that a version of cuckery?

[Oddquestiona96]

Pretty much love showing off my girl in every way. Don't night, talking about her pictures. Very proud to call her mine ans love making others jealous too if I'm honest

[love_conquers_lust]

The higher the value the woman, the higher the value the man that she chooses.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

I’d love to grab her ass in front of my guy friends and tell them she’s mine 😘

[Asker]

Yess this is what every man should do

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Tell her I’d make so many babies with her 😘

[Mansearching]

Never have to show her off. Don't need to. It doesn't matter how she dresses, she's beautiful. She'll be beautiful in a potato sack.

[dwreborn]

I dont show any pictures of my wife I talk about her a lot how great she is I would never show any pictures of her especially to revealing ones or nude but i brag her up often

[fatcat700592]

My partner likes to show me off sometimes to his friends or online

[KostasKouvalis]

I like to show off my female friends, even to piss my haters

[Kingofkings1992]

“Piss your haters?”

[krin_m]

It is totally her choice! I don't mind either way!

[Lover_of_big_tits]

I like to see her get attention when we go out, but I don’t share pictures because she’s not comfortable with it. She does show her friends my dick pics though, which flatters me

[Christoff92]

She would most likely probably show off. Then me trying to show her off.

[AmeerX]

I might show off if she is really beautiful. Nothing wrong with it I suppose 😊

[Likes2drive]

Yeah, when I had one I liked showing her off

[Nifrayu]

I'm neutral on this one. It should be her idea not mine. She can show off if she wants to.

[Still-alive]

I wouldn't do it 'intentionally' but incidentally while simply going out and doing things.

[normalice]

I'd only want to show her off to myself. I don't care about other people's opinions on my indulgences.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be with someone if I was embarrassed to be seen in public with them. I don't really see it as showing off.

[nudeNhorny]

sure, I really believe that if you got it flaunt it, and that applies on everything.

[Nahid1707]

If she is happy for me to take cute pictures of her yes

[rblvr18]

Yes I enjoy it if my wife dresses provocatively when we go out and I share nude pics of her at amateur porn sites.

[Yannae]

I do, but I show her off in a different way. I invite people over and she'll prepare a 5 star dinner for us. She'll come over and serve it.

[turnpost]

Your horniness is clouding your judgement find another hobby other then just sex.

[Asker]

This ain't about sex in any way

[turnpost]

Lol this is about sex. But lol now looking back though your question is valid. I wouldn't like showing off my wife, she is more then just some pussy pocket. Friend and partner first and then sex is just some activity we do at night. Inviting others is strictly a no.

[turnpost]

This is Inviting unnescary calculation, based on unsolicited voyeurism is a no. Women who are this thirsty are concerning.

[turnpost]

But to each there own. There concerning for me.

[Asker]

What about showing off to family? Like mom and grandma

[turnpost]

Seems like a weird time for my future wife to strip tease. I am not sure I understand what you mean show off.

I wouldn't want to show nudes of my future wife, to my deceased grandmother. I don't know if mom would be interested, but I wouldn't get any voyueristic pleasure from doing that sort of thing.

Showing off accomplishment, idrc. I think showing off wife is a subdivision of cuckery. To each there own though.

[turnpost]

I think showing that I love her, that is good. like holding hands and kissing (innocently, not like full on tongue and spitting in each others mouth) and hugging. This is good, its important that each partner is proud and not scared to show that there in love with eachother, but dont do it in a overly sexual way. Show love absolutely, no sexual intent in public spaces where people are present.

[Asker]

No not nude lol just in general

[Shamalien]

I think showing her off is kind of fkd like just chill and enjoy

[Asker]

Why would it be fucked?

[Shamalien]

It’s rude to brag about such things; it’s like you’re feeding off of single ppls misery

[Asker]

Doesn't have to be showing off to single people

[DWornock]

If she is pretty and makes you look good you. If she is a fat slop, you would be embarrassed.

[Asker]

I agree if the woman is more attractive a man is more willing to show her off

[DWornock]

Wives of NBA players are beautiful and they love showing them off because a beautiful wife makes a guy look good.

[Charliefretz329]

I used to. But they seem to not like that.

[Asker]

Why not?

[Charliefretz329]

I don’t understand girls at all… I don’t even know

[Asker]

Lol maybe they just feel shy about it

[Charliefretz329]

My first wife got pissed. Said it was wrong to treat her like she was a “trophy wife”

But I was smitten with her beauty and proud… I don't know

[Asker]

Awh cute that you were proud of her

[Charliefretz329]

You understand 😊

[Kingofkings1992]

People that like to show off anything are just immature

[Asker]

Showing off material things is a bit immature. Showing off the ones you love isn't immature at all

[Kingofkings1992]

Yes it is though. Showing off is immature in nature. Mature people don’t feel the need to show off

[Asker]

Not if you feel proud of having your spouse

[DWornock]

If that is true, the world is composed of very wealthy immature people. Why do you think they build mansions, drive the most expensive cars, buy famous paintings and other works of art, have arm candy, and throw elaborate parties?

[Kingofkings1992]

You can be proud without showing off. Your argument holds no weight

[Asker]

Yes but it's more for that person to know that you are proud and love them. For example if I never showed off my kids then they might feel like I don't care about them

[jahaims]

You can be wealthy and immature. How is being immature and wealthy mutually exclusive? Immature: having or showing an emotional or intellectual development appropriate to someone younger. Wealthy people do all of those things listed because they find it easier to become wealthy and bypass the need to become emotionally mature to get positive attention.

[Kingofkings1992]

@jahaims very true. Justin Bieber is very wealthy, but he is far from mature

[Anonymous]

Does a good women like to show herself off to other men?

[Asker]

A good woman would at least be confident enough to show off If she chooses to

[Opinion Owner]

I don't mean to be rude, but that's not what I asked and I think you know that. Could you consider answering the question?

[Asker]

If she chooses to then yes. My question is not about showing her off to other men. You could show her off to your grandma

[Opinion Owner]

For a moment I thought that was a fair answer. But I think given the context, validating men who like to show off their woman, and indirectly calling into question those who don't, I don't believe they're referring to family and friends.

I can't imagine hardly any man disliking it when friends or family think positively of his girlfriend or wife. This leads me to believe the quote is referring to showing her off in general, like in public.

And when you said "showing off her pics when she's not around" did you mean to family and friends? Because I don't get that impression either.

[Asker]

Showing off in any way to friends, family, strangers

[Opinion Owner]

Alright, showing off in 'any way', including to strangers. So I ask again, does a good woman like her body being shown off to men who are strangers to her?

[Asker]

I don't think a woman showing herself off means much besides that she's confident so sure a good woman is confident

[Opinion Owner]

Your answers aren't really direct, and seem a bit subversive, which I think is fairly telling. I think you found comfort in someone suggesting a man should show off his wife (contextually, to strangers), and you felt validated because you like the idea of you, or women as a whole, having their body shown off (hence "showing off her pics).

But you ran into an obstacle when I suddenly shifted the focus from the man wanting to do it, to the woman wanting it do be done, and you saw the morality of it now being much more questionable.

[Asker]

It can be a face pic not a body.
And no I just can't see how your pics are relating to my question so they are a struggle to answer

[Asker]

Questions* not pics

[Opinion Owner]

I said body but it being her face isn't much different.

And you don't think the question "does a good woman like her body being shown off to men" is relevant to the topic of men showing off their woman (and whether or not that's the 'right' thing to do)?

[Asker]

Nah thats like just random. I'm fine with the random questions tho so ask away

[CoolCatMar1]

My boyfriend loves it

[Bklynbadboy12]

Ues I love to show off my woman. A man should be proud of his woman

[Slim57]

No, pictures of us together, but she doesn't like to be shown off either so

[RedInnocent68]

Absolutely! Gush about her all the time 😉😂

[Grond21]

Yes, she looks great.

[RockPaperClip]

Voted A. Do you like it?

[Andres77]

i did enjoy showing her off.

[Unit1]

I am a private person.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No need to show off looking for attention.

[cadams111_5]

No, i'm secure in myself.

[Asker]

It's not about being secure. It's about being proud. If you are proud of something you'd show it off

[cadams111_5]

It's insecure to show one's partner off.

[Asker]

Not really. I'd your hiding them that would be insecure

[Asker]

If**

[cadams111_5]

it's insecure to boast a girlfriend to friends or even strangers. yes, you love your partner, who doesn't? nobody else really gives a fuck about them, apart from you.

[Asker]

That's very much a lie. My husband had to start carrying pics of me cause so many random people would ask to his wife. With his job be travels often so maybe for someone that didn't it wouldn't come up I don't know

[cadams111_5]

then it's insecure men who do this. They have to impress strangers. Maybe your hub is insecure too.
Tell me "i don't know you!" i wasn't raised in a spoilt convent. i wasn't told i was special and above judgment. funny how i know how you think and what triggers you, and how you only ever trigger me by reasonable shit.

[exitseven]

I tell her

[exitseven]

I tell her this sometimes when she does not want to go out somewhere. I tell her whats the use of having a pretty wife if I can't show her off. It works every time.

[hornycouple7080]

Like to Show her