Do you like showing off your partner?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I do like it.

I like when my girlfriends look at him and say

“Oh, God.”

”So handsome.”

“Looks like an angel.”

and so on…

Love it.

[Anonymous]

I understand that we want to show the beauty of anything we have/had. Mostly happens with some information we've got and think nobody understands it as much as we do.

Which mostly causes annoyance and opinion-forcing in conversation, in my opinion.

Not only information, but also things we "own" or 'have' are also things we want to tell people see how lovely they are.
Could also be as in: be as lovely as this is! (full or suggestively imperative), sometimes.

I see that showing of your partner is a part of it. And I personally have always felt so, and still feel I'd want to do it.

Didn't have a partner yet.. but yes I feel it. Not really sure if I'll like it, but most likely I'll try it.

[1 Objectively, it makes no sense sharing the beauty of things (in some cases; personal not public benefit), but I want to show people how great my choice and presenting myself was, that I had the chance of having such beauty.]

In the end, reasonably and meaningfully.. I won't.

Hope it makes sense.

[soe11]

I proudly showing off my girlfriend being sexy, attractive and get attention from her her friends and my friends.

I pay attention to her figure, exercise, swimming, massage therapy as well her outfits.

Same way she and her mum does about me too.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Not about his appearance but his actions. Hell yeah I brag about him - he baked me cheesecake on our second date 😭 he built me a heart shaped lamp 😭

I recently told him I bragged to other people about him and it made him all giddy 😄

[IslaTheWitch]

I like when my partner meets and befriends my friends... but I wouldn't say it's showing off... we will spend some time together as a group so it's better to meet as soon as possible.

[KrakenAttackin]

So, a guy is like a new handbag or pair of shoes to you.

[WhiteBoyChill]

She actually agreed. Lol 😆

[KrakenAttackin]

@WhiteBoyChill She is relatively young and hot, so she has an ultra -abundance mindset, which I get. The problem is she is ultra hypergamous which will lead her to be miserable, unless she locks down a Chad in the near future.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Sorry to interrupt. How is she ultra-hypergamous tho?

[msc545]

You are ultra hypergamous in a sense that at least on here you are constantly extolling the appearance and wealth of the men you date and there are many of them. Each one seemingly better than the next. You never talk about their character or personalities at all. What are we to conclude from that?

[msc545]

If you were not this way, you would actually object to the idea that the only thing your girlfriends could see or care about was the way the guy looks. You would counter with at least enumerating his other less visible and more meaningful qualities if he actually has any. Instead, he simply agree with your girlfriends and talk about how you love what they say as if his looks were your personal doing. They are not. You just happened to select the most attractive watermelon in the bunch.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545 Ding... ding... ding... we have a winner! Perfect answer. She constantly talks about how many guys she has panting to be around her.

[msc545]

She is very attractive so I don't doubt that guys cluster around her. What is a problem is that she has no filters.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545 Agreed, and what is her plan to leverage her looks? She needs to pick a good, high-value, man, and stay with him. But she will always have orbiters which will make her less committed to her main relationship.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin By the sound of it, it doesn’t sound like she wants to be settling down tho. She likes the attention too much clearly

[msc545]

I doubt there is a plan or even the recognition of the need for one. She is very young.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545 I think she is 27, which means she is already past her most fertile. 30 will be here before she knows it.

[CrabCakes11]

If somebody uses the words “Chad” and “hypergamous” unironically I know not to take them seriously

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was already engaged once , meaning I was ready to marry and have children. But it ended before my 26th birthday. Why can’t I enjoy my freedom?

As for my fertility, don’t worry ;) Take care of your fertility. And don’t put your nose in others business.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin Lol. “Why can’t I enjoy my freedom”. Is the exact type of shit that gets women in trouble

[KrakenAttackin]

@WhiteBoyChill Agreed 💯. At some point the party has to end and adult life begins.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d love to hear your opinions, about How do I pick the one, if I don’t date and reject everyone who asks me out? Would be interesting to hear

[msc545]

There is no one. That is a fantasy that you are going to need to divest yourself of sooner or later. There are only different people. If you keep holding on to your fantasy of the one nobody will ever be good enough and apparently that's been the case so far.

[msc545]

Try to remember that perfect is the enemy of the good.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545 Precisely, the curse of "hypergamy".

[msc545]

Sadly that seems to be the case.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545 Hypergamy fueled by Disney fantasies and dating apps. She really is on a trajectory to be miserable for life.

[Lliam]

Yup. I was always proud to be seen with my girlfriends and I'm proud to be seen with my wife.

I took my girlfriends everywhere, including family gatherings. It wasn't so much to show them off. Nevertheless, I was proud of them.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm not into all that showing off stuff.
Don't get me wrong, she's into looking as fit and healthy as I am, but for us, not for anyone else..

She has admitted to me though, she likes it when other women say I look really fit!

[molonski2]

No , I don't like that at all , had some stunning girlfriends that cop vast compliments , its all so superficial and always false , this stuff you can never take to heart , none needs others confirmations , and false ones at that , they are not living with them.

[CriticalCatDad123]

No, I don’t have a partner and don’t want one but if I did I wouldn’t want to show her off because other men will become interested in her and then they’ll go after her and in my experience women don’t know how to not cheat. I’m an extremely jealous person. I don’t think I was always that way. I became that way?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Absolutely. He's a handsome man and he makes me happy. I boast about him here and there. I'll always tell my girl friends about the things he does for me. Like when he cooks, fixes something in the apartment, buys me clothes, etc.

[spartan55]

Definitely a girl thing. Never even thought about it.

[7Phoenix7]

@wiltingrosepetal comment is me. I love showing him off, but more so on his personality and talents.

[7Phoenix7]

And would happen naturally because he was forever on my mind lol

[Mr_twoface]

No, couldn't care less what others think or what comments they have. I know wifey is astonishing!

[dustybiker2]

No. We aren't showboats. Get enough attention without prancing.

[KittygosMeoWW]

No, I did that with my ex than my sister said he was attractive and kept calling him her exes name while she was drunk at a family get together.

[Arik_jade]

Umm... I don't think so that guys are showing off their partners...
But definitely there are guys who stares on other girls.. honestly, sometimes me too.

[CrabCakes11]

No. I don’t care all that much to brag about him

[MicahRaine]

Hmm I wouldn't say I like showing her off, but I do quite enjoy being proud of her as a person especially when others see her "value"

[Nikki1989]

My husband is a natural comedian. Anyone we meet is instantly drawn to him so I don't have to show him off.

[Zayeem]

I don't have anyone now,, I would love too show,, but not as an object probably,, she's my partner...

[lifecanbehard]

i dont have a partner.

i asked a question on gag called How do I asked her to message me in a respectful way?

may i get your thoughts on my question

[Starrrboy]

Lol, it's actually the opposite from a guy's perspective..

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes I love doing that. Do women love thst or hate it?

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

What about grabbing girlfriend’s ass and saying “she’s mine?” 🤣