Would a guys care if the girl finishes if he's just using her for sex?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I have been in a situationship for 2 years and he really cares if I finish but I think he just uses me for sex so?

And I haven't asked him why he cares so much

[XingQi]

Honey, you need to analyze your relationship and see:

• Have you ever talked to him about your relationship? Long-term commitment? Possibly settling down and having children together? If he's not willing to at least commit, you shouldn't keep him around.
• Is your relationship about intimacy and supporting another, or do you both focus mostly on sex?

The bigger picture here is whether your relationship is built on concrete or sand. Sexual preference alone isn't enough to determine anything here.

[DannyUk2017]

How do you know "he's just using u for sex"? Maybe you BOTH use each other, or maybe he is concerned, that you might hit at him for being "greedy". I like to MAKE SURE that the woman, climaxed/orgasmed also, don't want to be seen as greedy...🤷‍♂️

[VictorMachiavelli]

Part of the pleasure of having sex is feeling desired, validation. Part of that is giving the other person an orgasm. If you had sex with a guy and he couldn’t cum or he went soft you’d feel like he wasn’t that attracted to you right? It’s the same for men.

As well, even if all he wants is a “situationship, he knows you wouldn’t continue having sex with him if you didn’t enjoy it much.

[RedInnocent68]

He could just really like the sex, and wants you to be satisfied, so he can keep using you… Although two years is a while. I’m more puzzled why millennials and gen Zs are so fucking scared of relationships and keep going on about all this friends with benefits and situationship 🐂💩.

[spartan55]

Sounds like another woman complaining about a guy who is unselfish at sex. It's called being good at sex. Why would that have anything anything to do with what type of relationship you are in?
Just take the win.

[spartan55]

"I think he uses me for sex"
A two year 'situationship'? You don't need to think about it honey. You are getting used like a used rug. Nothing like completely wasting your time with a guy that will never commit.

[genericname85]

everyone is different obviously. i guess some don't care but i wouldn't say most of the guys are like that. i think it doesn't necessarily has to do with how much you like a girl

[236color]

If you get off, you're more like to want to do it again.

[pregananant]

Some men are aroused by making others finish. As it should be. It's fun.

[jahaims]

Depends on the guy. He might get off from you finishing or he thinks you will come back for sex if you are finishing.

[Anonymous]

It depends how she feels about him. If he knows he has her he can do pretty much whatever er he likes. But if not he's got to put a little work in.

[Guido]

He probably cares so you will keep having sex with him.
I personally cannot relate as I have never used a woman just for sex.

[JHAYES317]

Well it seems you care so tell him how you feel

[Dreamclouds]

She is first, always

[Anonymous]

Just sleep around with another random guy.