Do guys have dates with girl in exchange for sex?

[Sugar100]

You guys go on a date & guy pays everything , and pays for your food, drink 🍹, does that mean you have to give him sex & kiss, & he’s doing all that for sex?
It’s making me think dates are a way to get sex.
As you hear same story , I went on date with guy, then we kissed , then it lead to sex.

[DishLady]

Well, to put it in REALLY CRUDE terms since that’s what you’ll understand…


Yes, guys will invest in a girl for the short term if the promise of good sex is available as a “reward” for their effort. The investment can be a date, work around the house, or any number of crazy things a guy is possibly willing to do the charm and impress the girl till she’s persuaded to drop her panties for him.


Obviously it’s not usually discussed in this way… and gentlemen looking for more long term serious relationships are usually more subtle about it till they are sure the girl they’re courting/dating is the one they really want.


Some women hold the prospect of sex over a guy’s head for an eternity to get extra investment. in my opinion this is a little ridiculous, but it’s up to the guy to divide of the girl is worth the investment.


Today, guys also tend to hold the prospect of sex over a girl’s head, which tends to confuse many a girl and prompt a relationship to end abruptly because it’s misconstrued as a lack of interest (or libido) on the guy’s part. (There are quite a few examples of this here on gag in the questions from some anon guys.)


If you take actual romance and attraction out of the dating equation (as you always seem to in your desperate questions), the “ROI” dating model basically boils down to a polite antiquated form of courtesanship in which the girl gives up her body in exchange for a few nights out. (Some gals are up for it, some want something more permanent — dating geared towards an actual relationship, so they don’t drop said panties till later to ensure that the value of what the guy is offering is equal to the value of what she can offer him.)

[DannyUk2017]

Now just want to ask..."where have you lived all your life?", have you ever heard about Gentlemen?
Usually there are 2 types of Men :
1-The ones that They actually Do all the "nice stuff", pay for meals, and other things with the "gain" in their mind (but usually that happens in clubs/pubs, etc.
2-The ones that they Really Appreciate the Companion (the Lady, the You) next to them and love to know them better. But also they have been "educated" since childhood that a Woman needs to be Treated Gently, and Be Taken care of, even if is just for a brief period of time, or if it will be a Relationship developing...🤷‍♂️
Now depends of the circumstances, and the person... if is a "bad boy type", then obviously he will "expect something in return" dor his time and money (and that's sad because the hormones got the best of him).
But if he's a Man with manners and good intentions then he likes to Appreciate the time is having with you, and spoil you all the way.

[Sugar100]

No I never had a boyfriend I never had met a gentleman

[DannyUk2017]

Ok, then i hope you'll keep my answer in "the back of your mind", for when you'll meet someone, as their "body language" will "fall" in one of the 2 categories...😉🤫

[OlderAndWiser]

When you hear that story, most often the girl was a very willing and eager participant for the bed games at the end of the evening. So, however wrong it is, the responsibility for it rests with both sexes.

When I was dating, I paid for everything because that is how my generation always did it. On a date, I expected a girl to give me her attention and to be sincere with me about her intentions, but I didn't expect sex because I paid for a meal, I didn't follow a three date rule, or any other rule. We talked about intimacy before it happened and we both got tested for STDs and shared our test results. And whenever it happened, it happened (which was usually as soon as we both had our test results.)

[hahahmm]

Some women are 100% like hookers and give sex in exchange for a meal. Although they also give sex to the guys who treated them worse and didn't give anything. They have different rules for different guys.

Not once in my life did I go on a date thinking that the woman owed me sex. I can't speak for all guys tho. I was never looking just for sex. If that's what I wanted why would I even bother paying for a meal? Cause you can get it without the meal stuff. Even guys who don't have the social game to do that KNOW that.

So the answer is: it depends. On you & on the guy. Nobody is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to be a hooker.

[FunkyMonkee]

I have dates with girls in exchange for a good time! If sex is in the cards, it'll come later. No pressure at all on her to fuck me just because I took her out a few times. THAT'S the way it's SUPPOSED to be!! If sex happens, it happens! If it doesn't, it doesn't! No big fat hairy deal and no harm done on either side. At least we had a bit of fun together, hopefully.

[slatyb]

Some do. I never have. If the date doesn't go well, I don't want to get more deeply involved. If it does, I'll get sex soon enough without asking.

[Kabluie]

It kind of does especially if the date is good, but the sex can lead to more, whether friends or relationship.

[sawno]

Some guys think like that yeah, others genuinely want a relationship.

[Jerre]

I go out with my friends with benefits. We go out for dinner, clubbing, etc. then back to my house for a night of sex and many orgasms.

[Sugar100]

What’s the difference of a boyfriend and friends with benefits? A boyfriend is meeting family? As it’s same u date boyfriend then have sex end of night.

[Jerre]

The difference is with a boyfriend a girl may not have sex with him. With a friends with benefits, THE GIRL AND I BOTH KNOW we”ll be having sex at the end of our date, finish the night with many orgasms.

[ProbablyClueless]

Some do. I generally don't.

[ChinaGrove]

Only 99% of guys.

[Nice222]

I have had it both ways.

[LiamJHayden]

Some do.

[eagle1951]

nooo