What do girls offer guys in return if they expect guys to make more money and pay for dates?

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Girls are always saying they want guys to make the first move and ask them out. And then they say a guy should pay for the date because they asked them out. What do girls offer in return? What makes this any different than prostitution for free meals?

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

The opportunity to build a life time partner for better and worse.
your money is well spend if you are smart enough to meet/find that woman.
she will in return give you your future children. Raise them to be quality humans. Sit together at dinner to have quality conversations. Build a life together. Be your companion when you are lonely.
hold your hands, cuddle with you, travel with you, give you a massage. Cook together… grow old with you.
again!! It’s in you to pick her out from the others who are only wanting free meals.

or you can be alone like most have not learn to be a real man.

Horror_lover92 · Accepted Answer

Tbh I always feel guilty when a guy pays for me so in a way when we go somewhere else I will beat him in paying it first. I mean yes it is nice but I just feel guilty

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most women don’t offer a damn thing. They come up w these lame ass answers, like he gets to spend time w me. Ok I can spend time w a lot of mother women. Why should I choose you? They say they bring everything, that they are the table lol I guess if she’s as big as one. But most women have nothing to offer that’s why a lot of men are going overseas. The ones who say I have my own home, my own car, I make x amount of money, etc. They fail to realize that doesn’t make them more attractive to men.

Leme2 · Accepted Answer

It's worse than prostitution. When you pay for a prostitute you are guaranteed sex. When you go out on a date you pay and are considered an asshole if you expect something in return. It implies that a women mere presence is more valuable than a man's. TBH, It's BS in a world where women fight for "equality", but women are the choosier gender so you'll need to adhere to the expectations if you want to best chance for success.

EricSummer · Answer

In my city in Geneva, Switzerland, 24h with an escort girl cost about 2500 dollars. By contrast, a date in a restaurant might cost you 100 dollars of which half is attributable to yourself. This is a huge difference. No woman would sell her favors for the price of a meal! This is simply a traditional sign of appreciation for the woman. It does not entitle you to anything. This also means you can still claim never to have paid for sex in case you want to take pride in this.

stepyo99 · Answer

Access to her pussy. That's what the two women who replied feel they bring to the table. Many modern women can't cook and won't clean. Many aren't loyal and they sure aren't obedient or submissive. Most are bitter feminists.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

It is basically prostution for free meals. 50/50 split or she can find another guy. I don't put up with that garbage (not that I go on dates anyway, my type of girl would rather stay home).

AlexisDiani · Answer

Go out with girls who don’t mind paying. My job pays me very well and I find the opposite. Guys get upset when they know how much I earn. We can’t win.

chrissykerdock · Answer

guys are always happy with a blowjob... or blowjobs on the rare occassions they take you out for a meal... not many do though.

LazerBean · Answer

So you expect sex in exchange for food. If you don't know the answer to your question, it's because you had subpar parents.

Adaeva · Answer

Guys receive someone pretty to look at, conversation, a think you and a smile. I am certain that is more than adequate compensation.

Jessica405 · Answer

Ya get to dine out with a lady. That is why you asked in the first place.  Expect sex? You are playing the wrong game!

Billlewis · Answer

For me personally, just having an opportunity to please her is rewarding enough, in and of itself, and I make it a point to try to spoil as many women as possible in this manner.

strateguy632 · Answer

we heard of wrong answers but i feel the details in this question are wrong question. firstly women WANT equal pay if same job. not for guys to earn more. paying for dates is cultural so in a culture where this is common they are justified to expect it and not as "payment for any service". and southpark is just comedy and satire not an accurate description of society.

sheikalana · Answer

They probably think they're great in bed and that's enough.

imawfulatusernames · Answer

If you don’t want to pay for dates don’t ask women out on dates. If you ask a woman out on a date you get her time, company, conversation, and possibly of a future. If you don’t like that deal don’t ask🤷‍♀️

TooHot2Care · Answer

Hoooo boy…… Buddy, listen….. I understand your frustration…. I do….. I’ve been there……but as a guy who gets action …? This is pointless ….. this is pathetic…..

If you go around expecting things in return from everyone, don’t be upset when no one wants anything to do with you…

EpicSnail · Answer

Do you understand markets? When Bugatti asks an obscene amount for an automobile, it is not because that price is fair to you, it's because if you don't pay it, someone else will.

mommymommymommy · Answer

The girl I'm about to go on a date with, basically asked me out first. I just made it more of a formality. I don't expect anything from her, and I hope she doesn't expect anything from me

Fuentes · Answer

Fuck a date they better throw it back or they get blocked

bamesjond0069 · Answer

They offer obedience, servitude, in theory virginity. I mean women do have very little to offer so they really need to have their shit together to get much out of a man.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Today they don't expect that. Women don't care anymore if we make more then they do.  About what they bring... We the same things we do I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do some men always expect something in return? They are only using women for sex, right?

Sasha0426 · Answer

I don’t plan to date or be in a relationship ever. Don’t know if that helps 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

How dare you! To expect that a woman offer anything beyond just being a woman. 🙃😆😆😆

shades777 · Answer

They offer more dates until you run out of rlmoney and go screw the next wallet and rinse and repeat

Anemone978 · Answer

Sex..

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