Why do many men over 35 become so salty towards women?

[Anonymous]

[desidoll]

Some think that it is women fault for rejecting them when they were younger and they are “hurt” So they wait and wait until their mrs perfect appears thinking that they don’t have to rush for it since their “biological” clock doesn’t exist. Too bad women are not that interested in older men either unless they are at least well-off or wealthy but by the time they realise this, it is too late.

[SotiCoto]

I'd hazard a guess it is just the nature of modern society.
Since "Internet Dating" became a thing, the perceived potential dating pool has expanded... so women have got a lot pickier... so guys on average have been subjected to far more rejection for lesser reasons. Plus relationships are even more fragile than they used to be.
Add onto that the lingering trend for blaming men for everything that goes wrong between the genders, and I wouldn't call it surprising that a lot of blokes have simply had enough.

[Pyrofox]

I think because a lot of older women become desperate. And its kinda bothersome when modern 2023 is hitting women hard that men aren't the ones anymore asking them out. And now they are getting the ugly old cherry medicine flavor that men have been dealing with as. More and more guys are simply becoming more and more selective as men get tired of women who are chasing the next fling rather than the next relationship. A lot of guys simply find the whole hoe phase as childish.

[Flatmanlewis]

I have an answer but I’d like to understand your question and line of thinking more.


I think a man over 35 has figured a lot of stuff out in life. (At least, if he’s doing it right) and among them is what he will and won’t put up with. I think a lot of women get so accustomed to men (usually younger men) doing anything to gain or keep their attention that when they find men suddenly not doing that, it is perceived as ‘salty’.

[RavVid]

That is a very good point. I find my desire for a close loving relationship that I was so eager for in my 20's is receding and I no longer believe in rainbows and unicorns.

So yeah they could perceive me as salty when it is more that they have to give me value.

Great point.

[YesterdaysChild]

I haven't seen that. More like they use women and when they have gotten what they want out of her they drop her off at the curb. But, to be honest, a lot of women do the same. Seems like they both are at cross purposes.

[Apple1996]

They get jaded with age. Plus they realize ain't no women want a balding grandpa anymore so they're probably sad about that and take out their anger on others

[AmeerX]

Umm not everyone gets bald and I have seen lots of guys with hot young girls. Not everyone becomes angry some just become smooth talkers to girls

[Asker]

@AmeerX
Those hot young girls probably cheating on them cause they in there for the money 🤡🤡 fool

[AmeerX]

@emyywolf I am always suspicious about this though. I actually advised my friend who is 60+ to not take this unusual advance of a girl lightly

[Apple1996]

@AmeerX bald, grey or bad hair. Most guys already have bad hair but the older they get the worse it gets lol

[AmeerX]

Guys with bad hair?

[Apple1996]

@AmeerX yes like not looking good. Sometimes I just wanna help these guys out. Cut and style it. Or thr bald ones give them some oils to help

[AmeerX]

@Apple1996 you cut hair of men? Are you a hairdresser by profession?

[Apple1996]

@AmeerX I've taught myself. I cut my husband and kids hair

[AmeerX]

🥰 that's really sweet that you did it for your family

[RavVid]

We don't care about women we are not interested in. To be salty to those we aren't interested in would take effort so I don't see that we bother to make that effort.

It seems more a rhetorical question to me. I could see men who have been persuaded to marry, father a couple of kids then were unilaterally divorced when the children are old enough foe elementary school being quite salty in general.

[RedInnocent68]

Even before the physical changes from andropause, if you aren’t grateful, having achieved some modicum of success in your personal or professional life by 40, you become filled with anxiety, depression, and self-doubt, which can manifest as bitterness and odd ‘mid-life crisis’ choices. I wouldn’t suggest the ‘saltiness’ is universal.

[ProbablyClueless]

The short answer is life experience. Men over 35 usually have a divorce or two and multiple failed relationships under their belts, along with dozens, maybe even hundreds of women wasting their time and money. You see that same saltiness starting to develop in younger men too. There are a lot of extremely abusive women out there.

[Sour-rose]

Maybe because they are 35 and things are going to shit... and women ain't helpin.

However, i know I still get hit on from guys who are definitely older than 35.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'm not many :)

What I believe to see: some guys have made the wrong choices earlier in life, failed to become who they wish to be, and became frustrated over time.

Now they blame ''the others''.

[ohsheeT]

I think if they're salty now they were salty way back when I think something must have happened to them and they blame the women instead of looking at themselves and being honest

[A_Bell]

They are tired of our sh&t? Lol.

Seriously, I've read that it's a common age for divorce. Probably a lot of wrecked single people at that age.

[LunarEclipse433]

You seem to make wide generalizations about older guys. In my experience younger guys can use a girl till they get tired and toss her aside. Older guys I feel know how to treat a woman better.

[Asker]

Yeah older guys after they USED everyone too. WTF 😂😂

[SaltyBeaches]

I haven't noticed that. It seems it's more younger guys.

[jshm2]

We don't.

At that age we know what we want, and don't need no kiddo telling us different.

[Nikki1989]

Some start a lot younger than that. They are just bitter over their failures with women.

[DJB72]

Because we've generally been burned trying to make a relationship work in a society that tells women men are expendable.

[rigmarole]

It just sounds like people don't like you. It's a personal problem. Work on it.

[NewgodOmega]

They have seen learned experienced too much of the bad product that the world calls women
That's why I am a guy i am 38

[Sonorous]

I figure it's because they've had more time of being lonely?

[Minahh]

I wouldn't say its necessary because of age a 25 year old guy can be a dick towards a woman as well as a 35 one can be a sweetheart

[ChiTown33]

I'm not salty. Maybe garlicky.😂

I prefer to be positive. Life is too short to be negative.

[BarryLiverstone]

They may have become bitter as they feel like women have hurt them

[Snakeyes7]

They were probably screwed over by bullshit marriage laws and proponents of those laws chock it up as hatred of women because they can't argue with it honestly.

[Nifrayu]

I don't know. I just know it's not going to be me.

[Djaay]

Actually it's the exact opposite. Wow... twisted that a 180 huh !

[Veles]

That’s a lie.

[Jennz6]

Salty

[Jennz6]

You mean experienced?

[AmeerX]

Salty means unhappy and hateful towards women with BS

[BLP11520]

Define salty

[Jennz6]

I’m think it’s extremely experienced

[BLP11520]

@Jennz6 ok dear

[Asker]

Angry, moody, pissed off. Hateful, Spiteful,

[BLP11520]

That is not me Lol

[Luopio27]

Not me.

[clampfan101]

I’m not.

[Pterodon]

I prefer A cups

[In_Trance]

child support