What do you think of a man extra caring with me when I’m with friends but when he gets alone with me he starts to act awkward?

[Anonymous]

The guy is working in a bar, he’s blushing almost everytime we see each other.
He often comes around to talk but starts to stutter and so on…

lately i ve been there with a friend (a girl), he was extra caring with me, smiling at me, bringing additional tables we didn’t really need lol and so on and making sure everything was OK.

My friend had to go early and I stayed a bit more alone. So I thought it was the opportunity to talk a bit more. But he started to act awkward and nearly avoidant and clumsy.😅

what do you think?

[Nirmroth]

Guy simply got nervous when he knows that it is expected of him to make a move now, that your friend was gone.

Remembers me of school days were people pushed you and your crush toghether to a remote place and then leave and you're suddenly alone with her akwardly not knowing what to do now.

[Asker]

Hahaha love the young days reminder 😂👀

OK so that’s what I thought but not sure about it.
This is cute but so frustrating as he can talk with a lot of people around but when it comes to me it’s crazily complicated.

[Nirmroth]

I get you but hey at least you know he's into you ;)

[Asker]

Yes thanks :) but it’s been a few months already.. what would you recommend to make things evolve?

[Nirmroth]

Oh damn at this point just hand him your number on a paper piece when you leave. Ik guys should make the first move but you can't trust him on that anymore.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s a mess.. sometimes he takes courage and come, but at last moment he ll talk to the person sitting next to me. LOL

[Monalisa77]

This seems to happen to me a lot! Theyre talkative with everyone else but with me theyre mute!

[Asker]

Then you know there s something special with you :)

[Monalisa77]

They change their facial expressions too lol

[Asker]

Oh interesting like what?

[Monalisa77]

Like either their lips r closed n just stare, usually theyre really energetic n smiling a lot, or that n did this weird thing with his mouth open whilst staring lol

[Asker]

Lol strange.. mine was clearly more avoidant, looking at me with insecure side eye, nearly stumbling when walking etc lol

[Monalisa77]

Ye i guess mine was a little like that the first bit but i didn't know what that meant lol he's overly confident so hasn't stumbled but we play cards n he was doing absolutely terrible which made me think he may have been distracted 😂😂