Why is he acting really awkward around me?

[Mel2021]

For some context, the guy is in my team and last week at work we had an office Christmas party where we were talking and he seemed to be really keen to talk and tease me a bit last week at the party, but now this week has became distant and doesn’t seem like he wants to talk to me now.

I don’t know what I did wrong, why is he suddenly acting like this?

[Steve1071]

Well undoubtably he’s developed feelings for you and he’s afraid of you now especially in this toxic world where if a man tries to approach a woman he could be accused of sexual harassment especially in the workplace and he doesn’t want to take that risk so basically you Gotta make the move from this point forward. the world has changed

[Mel2021]

How is it undoubtedly? Also thank you for your opinion!

[Steve1071]

Well did you want him to fall in love with you or not?

[Mel2021]

I do have a bit of a crush on him yes but just the word undoubtably makes it sound certain that he has developed feelings for me

[Steve1071]

You’re answering your own question, he has developed feelings for you and the fact that you have a crush on him you guys are playing games with each other stop being afraid but also just be a little smart.

[Mel2021]

Ok thank you, I guess I was worried I did something wrong when I haven’t done anything and didn’t understand the change

[Steve1071]

Don’t worry just be yourself. And remember if it happens it happens if not MoveOn there’s millions of people on this planet you’ll find one that will fit your needs and your desires

[Wise4myage]

Ask him why he's so hot and cold with you.

[Mel2021]

Thank you for your opinion!

[Wise4myage]

You’re welcome.

[spartan55]

I wouldn't word it that way though

[spartan55]

It's likely your perception. You aren't the center of his universe, he just has other stuff going on, OR you didn't seem interested so he lost his.