Being a sugar baby is pretty much being an escort on retainer. It’s not as trashy as giving blowjobs in a dark alley. Being a sugar baby is definitely more comfortable and dignified.
But, at the end of the day, it’s still prostitution — money in exchange for attention/sex/company and the manufactured illusion of love.
I think that whole scenario throws the whole self-respect thing out the window on both sides.
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You could say they're just like dogs chasing their tails, except instead of a tail they're trying to catch a bone that's been buried deep inside an 18-year-old’s crotch. These older men probably enjoy feeling like they still got it, like they’re some sort of tiger in the bedroom, but in reality, they’re more like a limp noodle in a bowl of soggy ramen. It’s like they’ve forgotten how to use their own ding-dong and are now willing to pay for someone else to handle it. I mean, come on, if you can’t get laid without paying for it, then maybe you should work on your skills and stop chasing after young tail. Just like a flower on a mountain needs water and sunlight to thrive, a man needs to put in the effort to learn how to pleasure a woman instead of relying on his wallet to do the job. But hey, I guess some men would rather take the easy way out and pay for a quickie instead of putting in the time and effort to grow their own garden. That's their loss, I suppose.
It’s all prostitution in a way… isn’t it? You take a girl out 2 or 3 times buy her some nice dinners and she’ll sleep with you. When I get old and some 20 something hot sexy girls wants some of my money… she can have it but you can be sure she will be putting out to get it. None Of this “just walking around with me” BS.
Why would men care that the girl is young, soft, no wrinkles, smells nice (not like Ben gay lol). When is men are in our 20s we want that 20 something girl in our bed…. When we are in our 70s we still want that 20 something girl in our bed. Nothing changes just the method we get her there.
Yeah they are kind of pathetic but at least they have a reason to be this pathetic they are old and unable to find girls cuz they are no longer at an age they can attracts females by usual means but they still want woman for some reasons (sex, feeling young, desperation to find company etc) but you compared to them sound even more pathetic making fun of them cuz again unlike them you have no excuse to unless you have a personality disorder turning back from their patheticness is their job like turning back from yours is yours.
First of all keep in mind that for older men it's not easy to find a soulmate. I know that out of experience. Meaning no one should emit any judgment when some single grandpa decides to pay for a female companion. How you call this kind of relation has no relevance at all, be it only because both persons consent freely to the arrangement.
A form of prostitution? Maybe, but then think of all those people being indeed married, but often gotten or staying together only because of interests, money and possessions. Not to mention people getting engaged with each other because of economic and/or political interests...
At least, when a girl accepts to provide for money intimate services, the situation is very clear. There a client and a supplier.
Any money exchange for sexual favors is prostitution. You can sugar coat it all you want to make you feel better about what you are doing but it doesn't change that situation.
Older men have nothing to lose at that point. They have lived their lives and just want the company and will pay for it. Its not love and they know that but it allows them to feel less lonely until the moment they die.
I had a friend that did this, and she got the idea from her friends that did it, and yes, it's prostitution. One time I walked in on her getting it on with an 80 year old man :: shakes head in disgust:: . At first I thought she was just masturbating with a pair of wrinkled tan pants, and then I looked closer. Ewww. I walked out of that room quick!
they are ok with it because they are shallow individuals. they are so hurt when young hot girls aren't attracted to them that he would rather PAY her to be with him than to not be able to attract any hot girls. it is his way of lifting his self-esteem and making himself believe that he is still appealing. but in the back of his mind, he secretly knows he is being used. He is just in denial about it.
it's an easy question , every man use a method or more to grab girl's attention , their look, muscles, personality, money and even their penis size , and every one of them will use the best option he has and for an old man who lost his muscle, look , has different mindset than young ones.. but has money so he will use his money , as easy as that, same thing with girls
They’re desperate or want something from these young girls in return, or feel lonely. I never take those type of relationships seriously with the gold digger girl and old man because it’s all about money or sex. It’s a joke.
No no no
See it just different. These men enjoy the company of a young woman. They don't care to pay because they often already lost a lot and have no one who can give company.
It is not for sex. So if he pays it is because he wants to. He has no one else or does not need things to spend his money on.
So no sex. No prostitution.
It's actually a way for men to have clean prostitutes. Pretty much only their prostitute til they run out of money
It’s kinda gross. But you really can’t blame the girls. A lot of them come from bad family situations.
Some men are so lonely they are prepared to pay for the company. Sad.
Coz otherwise no younger girls will go near them
Many are just happy for the sex. Seems rather obvious to me. If not the sex, it’s the attention by someone they could never have at that age, or cred with others. Usually, it’s the former.
For some men that's the only way to get the women they always wanted to have.
Do you NOT see the smile on his face? Does that smile make you think he's being used? Or does it mean he's liking him some Wang Dang Sweet Poontang?
same reason the girl is ok with being a trophy. some people are fine with superficial relationships
OMG. LOL
It's money for honey. How is that even a complicated thing? Don't tell my boss, but I only go there for the money. I'm using him for his money. And the grocery store is just using me for my money.
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