Being a sugar baby is pretty much being an escort on retainer. It’s not as trashy as giving blowjobs in a dark alley. Being a sugar baby is definitely more comfortable and dignified.
But, at the end of the day, it’s still prostitution — money in exchange for attention/sex/company and the manufactured illusion of love.
There’s also an important distinction between a wife that a husband spoils with gifts, who would stay with him, with or without the lavish lifestyle.
That’s not a sugar baby. That’s just a wife with a husband that splurges on her.
A sugar baby will leave once her client can’t can’t pay her fee. In sugar baby / sugar daddy arrangements, everything is upfront. Money for honey.
A man isn’t really being used for his money, without his knowing, unless it’s a gold digger relationship.
When a girl pretends to love a guy, but is actually manipulating him for his money? That’s a gold digger.
Sugar babies are supposed to be transparent in contrast. It’s money for services.
The service being a fake relationship — like booking a girlfriend experience.
Being used is being used. Whether you know about it or not. And everyone with eyes can see the weirdo creepy older men are being USED by the young women they are with.
It’s more comfortable and dignified to who? You? Cause sleeping with an old unattractive man for money could never be ok in most people’s minds. Paying for sex is LAME. The fact that y'all are so desperate to do that when older and even younger as men is sad.
@aphrodite801 True. The old rich men are being used for their money.
It’s the feeling of being used that accompanies deception. Like when you feel like you were tricked or taken advantage of, you feel used.
If it’s a transparent transaction though, they shouldn’t feel like they’re being used because they know what they’re signing up for — a fake relationship.
As for more comfortable, I mean more comfortable for the sex worker. Usually the ones who work on the street and in dodgy places are either being pimped out or they are trying to fund some sort of drug addiction. They’re in a very uncomfortable and dark place, usually desperate for money.
The ones who are drawn to being a sugar baby, usually are attracted to the money and the lavish lifestyle. So they’re trying to obtain luxury at the cost of their soul.
Luxury is comfortable. You can also see this happening in Dubai — women who are prostituting themselves for a luxurious lifestyle. But at what cost, right?
I don’t condone this by the way. I’ve just read autobiographies and listened to interviews and read up on this out of curiosity.
I personally don’t believe one should sell their soul for any price.
I think that whole scenario throws the whole self-respect thing out the window on both sides.
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Being used is being used, and Money is Money...🤷♂️
You could say they're just like dogs chasing their tails, except instead of a tail they're trying to catch a bone that's been buried deep inside an 18-year-old’s crotch. These older men probably enjoy feeling like they still got it, like they’re some sort of tiger in the bedroom, but in reality, they’re more like a limp noodle in a bowl of soggy ramen. It’s like they’ve forgotten how to use their own ding-dong and are now willing to pay for someone else to handle it. I mean, come on, if you can’t get laid without paying for it, then maybe you should work on your skills and stop chasing after young tail. Just like a flower on a mountain needs water and sunlight to thrive, a man needs to put in the effort to learn how to pleasure a woman instead of relying on his wallet to do the job. But hey, I guess some men would rather take the easy way out and pay for a quickie instead of putting in the time and effort to grow their own garden. That's their loss, I suppose.
It’s all prostitution in a way… isn’t it? You take a girl out 2 or 3 times buy her some nice dinners and she’ll sleep with you. When I get old and some 20 something hot sexy girls wants some of my money… she can have it but you can be sure she will be putting out to get it. None Of this “just walking around with me” BS.
Why would men care that the girl is young, soft, no wrinkles, smells nice (not like Ben gay lol). When is men are in our 20s we want that 20 something girl in our bed…. When we are in our 70s we still want that 20 something girl in our bed. Nothing changes just the method we get her there.
I don't know why you losers who pay for sex keep saying that, it’s not the same and y’all just make it obvious y'all are lames who need to pay to have a woman notice you’re breathing
Yeah they are kind of pathetic but at least they have a reason to be this pathetic they are old and unable to find girls cuz they are no longer at an age they can attracts females by usual means but they still want woman for some reasons (sex, feeling young, desperation to find company etc) but you compared to them sound even more pathetic making fun of them cuz again unlike them you have no excuse to unless you have a personality disorder turning back from their patheticness is their job like turning back from yours is yours.
They sure are and there is no excuse for being so desperate and lame. Then you have the NERVE to try and call older women alone and unhappy when they are older well clearly we aren’t more lonelier than y'all as y'all are literally PAYING for sex and companionship. So lame. We’re more depressed than y'all when older but y'all have much higher suicide rates. Doesn’t make sense 🥱
First of all keep in mind that for older men it's not easy to find a soulmate. I know that out of experience. Meaning no one should emit any judgment when some single grandpa decides to pay for a female companion. How you call this kind of relation has no relevance at all, be it only because both persons consent freely to the arrangement.
A form of prostitution? Maybe, but then think of all those people being indeed married, but often gotten or staying together only because of interests, money and possessions. Not to mention people getting engaged with each other because of economic and/or political interests...
At least, when a girl accepts to provide for money intimate services, the situation is very clear. There a client and a supplier.
Oh how is that the case when apparently the older a guy gets the more he is wanted like bitter men love to say?
What do you mean? I don't understand your point. Sure is nevertheless I know some realities of life without being "bitter".
The point is don’t y'all say it’s easier for a man to get a soulmate the older he gets? Now apparently it isn’t easy?
Ah ? That depends on what you call an older man... , 40 ? 50 ? Sure at that age men can have some authority and success. I'm 69, and whatever you may think, payed services set aside, no woman, not even older ones, seem to be interested. Mind I'm not complaining. It's life.
Any money exchange for sexual favors is prostitution. You can sugar coat it all you want to make you feel better about what you are doing but it doesn't change that situation.
Older men have nothing to lose at that point. They have lived their lives and just want the company and will pay for it. Its not love and they know that but it allows them to feel less lonely until the moment they die.
I had a friend that did this, and she got the idea from her friends that did it, and yes, it's prostitution. One time I walked in on her getting it on with an 80 year old man :: shakes head in disgust:: . At first I thought she was just masturbating with a pair of wrinkled tan pants, and then I looked closer. Ewww. I walked out of that room quick!
they are ok with it because they are shallow individuals. they are so hurt when young hot girls aren't attracted to them that he would rather PAY her to be with him than to not be able to attract any hot girls. it is his way of lifting his self-esteem and making himself believe that he is still appealing. but in the back of his mind, he secretly knows he is being used. He is just in denial about it.
it's an easy question , every man use a method or more to grab girl's attention , their look, muscles, personality, money and even their penis size , and every one of them will use the best option he has and for an old man who lost his muscle, look , has different mindset than young ones.. but has money so he will use his money , as easy as that, same thing with girls
It’s creepy and weird.
They’re desperate or want something from these young girls in return, or feel lonely. I never take those type of relationships seriously with the gold digger girl and old man because it’s all about money or sex. It’s a joke.
No no no
See it just different. These men enjoy the company of a young woman. They don't care to pay because they often already lost a lot and have no one who can give company.
It is not for sex. So if he pays it is because he wants to. He has no one else or does not need things to spend his money on.
So no sex. No prostitution.
Some men are so lonely they are prepared to pay for the company. Sad.
It's actually a way for men to have clean prostitutes. Pretty much only their prostitute til they run out of money
It’s kinda gross. But you really can’t blame the girls. A lot of them come from bad family situations.
Coz otherwise no younger girls will go near them
For some men that's the only way to get the women they always wanted to have.
They could have paid for a prostitute when they were younger so that’s not true
Do you realize that a lot of men are broke when they're young.
And a lot of men are broke when older in fact most men in the world are broke so what’s your point?
A prostitute is not expensive either, and if a prostitute is a woman they always wanted they’ve got a big issue
Do you NOT see the smile on his face? Does that smile make you think he's being used? Or does it mean he's liking him some Wang Dang Sweet Poontang?
Walking wallets. Stay salty
You seem to be upset about this. What happened to you?
Many are just happy for the sex. Seems rather obvious to me. If not the sex, it’s the attention by someone they could never have at that age, or cred with others. Usually, it’s the former.
Lame is lame, if they just wanted sex they could have gotten a prostitute or gotten it for free. Oh wait, no woman will fuck an old unattractive man for free. So they can’t do THAT.
same reason the girl is ok with being a trophy. some people are fine with superficial relationships
It’s not like the girl is losing anything
losing a better more genuine relationship? potential loss of reputation if seen as "gold digger"
if i guy is fine being used for money he is clearly fine with using ("losing") money so it's not really a loss to him
Huh? Do you think most of these women are faithful to these old unattractive men? 🤣🤣 delusional. And yes if he’s being used for his money he’s clearly losing money. You make no sense
he's losing money but he doesn't see it as a loss. just like the girl who may suffer a loss in reputation or freedom doesn't see it as a loss. they see it as a trade off for something they want
can we have a convo without the insults?
Again a loss is a loss 🤣 you tried to make it equal saying the girl is losing something but she is not truth hurts dude is a creep and a walking wallet
Paying for sex with a woman much younger than you is a trade off? Again I couldn’t imagine being so lame to do that. Also I don't know who that guy was talking to but removed him
it may not be your cup of tea. it ain't mine either. i don't want a girl who sees me only as a wallet. i don't want a girl who doesn't bring anything other than being arm candy. my partner is my partner. someone who is a friend, wife, mother, love, etc.
but some people seem to be cool with those relationships. i just shrug my shoulders
Dude I’m not going to argue about reality. It is not the same and the woman is only being looked as a “trophy” to other losers. Don’t want to accept the truth? Oh well. Again, some of y'all aren’t even having SEX with the girl and are getting used for money. Beyond lame.
did you read my response? "y'all"? i'm not in this population of rich old dudes with trophy wives. so i am not the "y'all"
again it ain't for me. i don't understand but it's no skin off my back. they do what they want right? seems like an empty lifestyle to me but not really a big deal in my life
OMG. LOL
It's money for honey. How is that even a complicated thing? Don't tell my boss, but I only go there for the money. I'm using him for his money. And the grocery store is just using me for my money.
Well, it is super honorable that your body can be bought by money like grocery.. Except that grocery are much more valuable..
@Light_beam
I bet that makes sense to you. Good job.
Anything to feel better about selling yourself huh
Nothing cheapens love like having to pay for it.
Because they dont have anything else. AS a guy to get hot normal girls you need a nice body, a lot of skills..
There are hot guys and hot girls with unattractive people who don’t have lots of skills. So that’s not true
Being 'okay' doesn't properly describe my views on this subject. I'm not just 'okay' with it -- it's my number one goal.
How about Young Women Using Older Guys for Their Money? Old Guys like This---Remind Me of Pervs. xxoo
Because men are lonely and will do a lot to be with a woman they find attractive, since sad to say but people don’t usually look attractive past 70 and even 60s is hit or miss.
Yet y’all try to talk shit about women being old and competent with cats/by themselves. At least they are satisfied and happy with being alone, they’re not paying for love and sex like a desperate lame.
I don’t get how being used by a young woman is being with her. Those are two different things, everything is transactional and if you don’t pay she’s gone. Oh and if a richer man comes around she’s gone.
Hey I agree with you…I’m not saying I’m that kind of guy but I understand WHY a lot of older men think that way. A lot of them feel like they may not live that long so they want to take advantage of their time while they can. Personally for me, I need the other person to find me both physically and mentally/emotionally attractive for it to work, or if not physically, the mental/emotional attraction has to be strong enough to compensate for that. If I’m still single when I’m old, I’d rather go to brothels and strip clubs rather than the whole sugar daddy thing because at least then I’m fully aware that it’s just sexual/transactional and there’s no pretending to be something they are not
If a woman did that she was in love with someone but he breaks her heart so she gave up on love and look for money
I know a guy who like your description , well he is pretty rich so he didn't care
It’s not about being pretty rich, being used is being used. And that’s never a flex but these guys act like it is. And then these are the girls they are with in public. Can imagine the underage girls they are doing stuff with in private. Epstein island. Sugar daddies are always sus
He probably didn't think he feel used either since he got what he want from her
If he involved with underage , it s different story , he should be arrested and put in jail
They both like to pretend it isn't, but they know it is
I made up my mind that I won't be with a girl that wants me just for my money. What money? lol
they just down so bad for fresh pussy they dont care how it makes them look
Because they are having sex with young women. When your rich or famous women will leg you do what you want, grab em by the pussy
lol troll better
Why are women okay with being used for sex for money?
Why are y'all ok with being used for sex for nothing?
Orgasms is something that can be done for free 🤡🤡 y’all are just so unwanted y'all literally have to pay for someone else to do it. Thats embarassing
Gotta buy love now a days. It’s
Because they only have money to offer.
Cause He'z gettin' the panties out of it'.
Wow imagine being that lame to think that was something worth paying for, can’t get it without paying 🤣 and a lot of y’all don’t get panties out of it. Plenty of y'all get NOTHING.
Cause they get them in exchange
They aren't they just feel it's their only option left for such age. What woman what date men over 50?
Actually plenty of them don’t even sleep with the weirdos
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