Is that a sign of narcissism?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend (and a coworker) is showing some disturbing personal characteristics recently.

The list is getting long, but the most recent thing is that he pretends (not sure) to have forgotten my date of birth, but to remember everyone else's birthday. I mean his friends and our other coworkers.

I got upset, because it makes me less valuable and important compared to random coworkers.

I complained and he said "it's a minor thing... not a big deal".

He tried gaslighting me many times (examples: many times is saying the exact opposite of what I said just to piss me off and later when I said "oh you are always opposing me, what's happening now"... he replied "me opposing you, that has never happened"... I told him "you never apologize"... he replies "because you always say that my apologies are jokes"... how can I say that when he apologized only twice).

Anyway... I think you got an idea of what's happening.

[Anonymous]

No doesn’t sound like it. Amazing women don’t even know the definition of narcissism but they sure like to throw that word around when the man says something she doesn’t like or agree w. That’s always the answer to men’s thoughts or feelings that women don’t like. We just get labeled as narcissist or little dick energy or a number of other crazy made up terms women come up w. As for remembering your birthday, a lot of men are bad w dates. Took me a while to remember my girls birthday. Hell even my mom’s. Doesn’t mean I love her any less. I usually don’t even remember my dental or doctor’s appointments.

[BoopBoopBeep]

None of that has anything to do with narcissism. That's like when women say everything is misogynistic, then you ask them what that word means and act like you don't know and they can't define it or they define it wrong, because they're merely parroting a word they heard on social media.

[e232bm]

Does he often do things like this or is it a one time thing? Whether it is narcissism or not if he isn’t making you feel good and you feel as if he is devaluing you, you should walk away from the relationship.

[Asker]

I told here that I noticed a pattern of this specific behavior. The fact that he remembers everyone's birthday but not mine.

[boggboss]

No I don't believe tou info is enough ti be able to diagnose him online just seems like u guys have a shitty relationship and he ain't a nice guy which begs the question why are u with him

[cloud9vortex1234]

No, all you had was a disagreement with him.