Is this considered narcissistic?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and one of the things I notice he does is he loves to say things that upset me to get a reaction out of me. I admit I can be quite a jealous person and he knows that but then he goes on to say something bizarre like “this girl sat on my lap the last night we were out drinking” and when I react he’ll continue to make the story worse until I’m at the stage of anger and then say “oh i was only joking”.

I’ve asked him time and time again to stop doing this because it messes with my head and makes me paranoid but he still continues to do this. Is this abusive behaviour or the signs of a narcissist or am I only overreacting?

Is this considered narcissistic?
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