Sleeping with a guy too fast?

[Anonymous]

is it true that a guy knows pretty much instantly what he wants to get out of you (relationship/hookup etc), so it doesn’t actually matter that much on how quick you sleep with him (obviously to an extent) ?

[236color]

I don't know if there are any hard core rules on this. If all you want from him is sex, it doesn't matter. If you're thinking longer term, it isn't fair, it shouldn't matter but I think I probably does. How long is long enough? That REALLY varies. Consider your age, his age, his background, religion, political affiliation...

I don't know where that list ends. Only thing I'd say for sure, not on the first date if you want a second date.

[Daffotul]

nope it can matter if your will to give it up too soon he might not consider you as relationship material

[spartan55]

I'd say this is true most of the time.

[Tim2nice]

Some do some don’t. It wouldn’t bother me