Signs of a man?

[Haddog]

Signs of a high value man or a man that is qualified to be a husband, to be a good father to its children?

[JacobJordan]

wife response: I feel somewhat qualified to speak on this as I am married and have 3 kids. My husband (account creator) is endlessly patient, respectful, kind and caring. He is physically, mentally and emotionally present. He does what needs to be done around the house, the property and with me and our kids. He is calm, focused and his level head keeps me from panicking in situations that are stressful. He is intelligent, good with his hands and can build and/or fix just about anything with anything. When I first got pregnant I called him while he was at work and he came home to spend the rest of the day with me. He has been present at every appointment and birth. He carried me to and from the restroom in late stages of pregnancy as it was difficult to get up. he would help me get up and lay down every morning and evening. he would make breakfast, lunch and dinner. took care of everything around the house while I was pregnant and while I was recovering from giving birth. He made several good financial decisions and as a result we do not have to work which is fantastic and means we have very little stress. There is more but that is enough for now. So in my opinion and experience THAT is a high value man.

[Haddog]

Thank you for the answers. by the way what kind of a boyfriend he is before?----his character that qualifies him to say yes when he propose.

[JacobJordan]

He was romantic, kind, sweet, he would listen when I talked, he was silly, if I needed help he was always there to help me. I needed help moving some heavy items and my family had other plans so I only had him to ask and he walked 45 minutes to where I was to help me. He would make sure we spent time together every day whether in person or over the phone. Always made me feel safe, heard, respected, and valued. His proposal was amazing as well. He had spent months going to a clearing overlooking a lake where he grew up planting climbing flowers so they would climb around trees. He made a bench by hand using various things he could find in the woods. We went in mid afternoon and I thought it was just a date. When sunset hit he started a small fire and then proposed to me.

An important thing though is everyone has different values and ideals so what I consider a high value man or qualified man for husband material may not work for everyone.

[Haddog]

Thank you

[JesseP1nk]

If you see a feminist, then ask her who she think is a misogynist and who have toxic masculinity behaviors - nowadays , that is high value man. Rest are boys who have no values, no motivation to grow mentally, physically, financially. They just want to smoke weed and play video games. You want to start a family someone with that?

[Anonymous]

Being able to be a husband and being able to be a father are both different roles. If I were you, I’d ask those separately because each are incredibly different.

[Tim2nice]

Aren’t you too young to worry about husbands?

[Haddog]

HAHAHAHAAHA

[Haddog]

Sir, at least I ask early

[BarryLiverstone]

If he looks like he’s barely gotten any sleep.. that’s a good father :)

[bededazzle]

willing to continually work on things