Why would a guy show interest in you then disappears?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy in class. I could always catch him checking me out when I was not looking. Then one day I was sitting next to him and I told him that I was cold, he immediately lent me his jacket. We then started talking before the class and during breaks. I could feel that the way he looked at me was different, his eyes were always smiling. He got my number and organized some dinner. I could not make it so I sent him a message saying I was sorry. He then texted "let me know when you are free next." So I texted him back telling him when I was free. Then I heard nothing from him. Is he interested in me or not? I am confused.

[BigAssB1tch]

I think it's because I'm too big to handle. He's scared of my massive ass and he's afraid to commit to it. It like a boulder on his micropenis. He can't get past it, but if I find a guy who can handle my massive ass, I'll hold on to him. I won't let him go, girl. I'll keep him around for good.

[sage2021]

I guess you took the excitement out of it when you cancelled on him. Now he could care less. Maybe he doesn't like that the ball is in your court.

[Machette]

This is pretty normal for a guy. I am sure you didn't mean to come off in a bad way but he more then likely thinks your messing with him or went out with another guy.

Ask for some help on the homework in the class your in and that might get him to talk to you again.

[Anonymous]

Baseball analogy. When you get your pitch you gotta swing at it you might not get another one. You let that pitch go. Now you're going to have to wait. You might get another, you might not.

What'd we learn from this? If it was nothing, then you know that is why you fail.

[Nylife20j]

I'm going to tell you why obviously he's sees you as an option. It has to be very clear I've broke with my ex evethough she incarcerated but she claims to love me marry me writing letters to me having kids. But yet I ended finding out she posted online while she is incarcerated as of now. I've told my ex sister I'm through with her. I've blocked her number for a reason. She didn't like the fact when I say no male friends in order for an upcoming marriage to last then so be it. I'm done. Means I'm strong enough to leave it's that simple. In your case let him know talk to him find out. It's your life you take control live by your boundaries.

[serious]

Perhaps he lost interest fast. Especially when you did not make it the last time. I think he took that as a rejection.

[Hawaiikai]

“Your here…”

“life is here…………………. just going on.”

move along with life and move on love. Trust me I know how it feels. Don’t stay in one spot.

[Paris13]

He could Come Back. Not Sure what His Situation Is. But Yes, Could Come back again. xxoo

[JackStany]

You acted rudely by not going to the date. He thought you were mocking him and distanced himself from you.

[ItsBodieBrah]

Usually fear, or their interest was caused by a different motive that wasn’t substantial.

[IndyGirl2]

Because he was already dating someone, already married, or met someone else. Or he has cast a lot of fishing poles and he got a bite on another one first. Lastly, he could have gotten so butt hurt he moved on.

[Anonymous]

So he is in your class, and you're still wasting time with text messages?

OK, whatever.

[DextroShade]

You flaked on him so he assumed you aren't interested or at least interested enough.

[Joker_]

that's the classic interest disappearance act right there

[MaxUsefull]

This happens for a number of reasons, there's no way to know why

[Avicenna]

People are flakes sometimes

[spartan55]

Why can't you just talk to him in class?

[sheikalana]

He’s immature.

[Iron_Man]

He’s a flake