I want to know how my crush perceive me?

[Anonymous]

This guy I have a does not initiate contact with me but when I approach him to talk he talks to me for long hours. But when I look into gis eyes I see nothing, I look for emotion of love or like in his eyes, it is just plain. I do not see him avoiding me. Is he indifferent to me

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... A man needs to learn how to hide His emotions in order to be taken seriously, and if He's had any haunting experiences in His past, this assumption will only be reinforced in His mind. What are Your conversations mostly centered about? If He's not avoiding You, He must see You as a good partner for a conversation, at the very least, and You are likely to have similar interests. And as for not initiating contact... Let's just say it's much safer for a man these days to wait for the slightest hint from a woman related to closing the distance. If You were a man, all You had to do was to be a little too confident interacting with a woman and You might end up with criminal charges, and that usually means a ruined life.

[Asker]

He talks about how he accomplished a task of I asked about it or general stuff about himself, his plans about his future

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... In this case, He seems competent and confident, with the sole exception of initiating a conversation with a woman (or is it just with You?). Honestly, I can't really blame Him for this little objection.

[Asker]

So he does not like me

[CalmUntilAbused]

He might like You. What He does not like, and I can't really blame Him for that, is the risk of getting in trouble with law for forcing Himself on a woman. Though the eyes... I'd love to control myself to this extent, but my eyes would probably give me away. Unless He's a really seasoned veteran of the 21st century, He might at least be unsure of His feelings.

[Asker]

Thank you for your perspective on this, it cleared my doubt.

[CalmUntilAbused]

You're welcome. I hope I didn't scare You or discourage You from conversing with Him.

[Asker]

No, you did me a favour, if he does not like me I will not initiate conversation with him , he maybe talking out politeness and that isnot enough for me.

[CalmUntilAbused]

The point is... You don't really know. He might like You. It's just hard to put into words, okay? Say I like a girl. It might take me about a year (or more) to properly show my feelings. I would initiate conversations, but I'm just a little safer with that considering where I live. Right now I feel like I might have ruined a perfect pairing, You know?

[buff006]

Drop a hint and say something like i like talking to you, lets have coffee/lunch etc, see how it goes? So casual, you dont show your hand;)

[In_Trance]

So talk to your crush

[Asker]

If he he does not like me what is the point of talking to him

[Anonymous]

Why just ask him?