Guys, Why would a guy in class always choose to sit right (maybe a few rows) in front of me?

[Anonymous]

He used to like me from afar and I still catch him taking glances at me when he thinks i‘m distracted but he doesn’t seem nervous around me anymore.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that does sound kinda weird why he would always sit in front of you. Maybe he still thinks you're cute but is too nervous to actually talk to you. Or maybe he just wants a good view of the class from where he sits! I wouldn't read too much into it, lots of people get shy around people they like. If you wanna know for sure though you should just try talking to him and see how he acts.

[Asker]

But that’s the thing. He is not nervous around me anymore

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I see what you mean now. If he's not acting nervous around you anymore that is a bit odd. A few possibilities that come to mind:

- He could have moved on from liking you and is just sitting there out of habit now. Like he knows it's a spot near you so he picks it without really thinking about it.

- Or, he may have worked up the nerve to talk to you at some point when you weren't looking and got shot down. So now he's just being friendly but isn't interested anymore.

- It's also possible he's talking to another girl now and isn't focused on you as much.

Hard to say for sure without asking him! I'd say your best bet is to chat with him casually next time you get a chance, just to get a read on the vibe. Bring up something related to class so it's not too obvious. See how he acts and if there's any signs he still likes you. Might help you figure out where you stand! Otherwise maybe just chatting will help ease any weirdness between you guys.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I think he still likes you.

[Asker]

Why doesn’t he act nervous around me anymore then?

[ThrillSeeker01]

Maybe he thinks that you've noticed what he's been doing and that you know that he has feelings for you.

[Asker]

But wouldn’t you still be Nervous around your crush in this case?

[ThrillSeeker01]

It depends on the guy. He doesn't act like he's nervous from the way you tell it.