So I turned this guy down and he found another girl and now he’s avoiding me. He doesn’t know how I found out but now he’s avoiding eye contact?

[Anonymous]

Is this normal guy behavior? I feel like he still has feelings for me and doesn’t want to rub it in my face or try to make me jealous but he knows I know and has no idea how I found out.

what do you think he’s thinking right now?

[spartan55]

So, you rejected him, and he is seeing someone else now. But, according to you, he still has feelings for you...😂😂 and why is that exactly?
He's not avoiding because he doesn't want to make you jealous or whatever you said that made no sense. It's because you rejected him and he moved on. Why tf would he care about how you found out? That is so insignificant, I'm sure hasn't even thought about it.

[Asker]

Because if he didn’t have feelings for me anymore, he should act normal around me. Insyead he seems bitter and resentful and mean

[spartan55]

Not true at all. 'Bitter and resentful and mean'... okay... why? Based on what? You act like he should just be falling all over himself for you. He's ignoring you, which is very common when you are rejected by someone. Why do you even care?

[Asker]

I didn’t ask for him to feel anything for me in any type of way to begin with.

[spartan55]

I don't know what that means or what you are talking about. Didn't ask him to feel what?

[Asker]

We weren’t even friends first. I feel like he’s struggling to not make eye contact bc when I catch him staring, he glances away fast and acts annoyed

[spartan55]

That all means nothing.

[Asker]

Ok so why is he acting the way he is?

[spartan55]

I already told you, he's pissed you rejected him.

[Luckycharms12]

He moved on not about you anymore

[Asker]

Then why isn’t he acting normal around me

[spartan55]

@asker
What is normal? All you've really said is that he stares at you.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yeah, he's just trying to rub it in I think