Is this situation normal? Am I dealing with a Stalker?

[Anonymous]

A few weeks ago while I was casually on IG, I commented on a post, which had many likes, many people wrote to me privately, and sent me requests, some of which I accepted, I have a business and these opportunities are good to promote my products, long story short a man wrote to me, he seemed very respectful, gentleman and decent, he told me how he liked my comment and so on, I told him about my business and he seemed interested in my products, we talked about many topics such as current society , politics, and so on, but then he told me that he wanted me to sell him my shoes (heels), he told me that he liked my elegance a lot. I was very direct from the beginning and told him about my husband, and he told me that my husband is a very lucky man, but I didn't like something about him, he told me that he wanted me to take advantage of him monetarily, and honestly I felt uncomfortable and blocked him, yesterday I received a call from a European country, I immediately thought of him, how did he got my number? I was terrified, it gives me Joe Goldberg vibes, is this normal? is this guy an obsessed person?

Normal

Not Normal

Stalker

[Staximus]

How would he get your phone number unless you have it listed online for one of your businesses? Unfortunately if you do business online in social media, you're going to have to filter out the weirdos. If he wants you to take his money then take it. If he's one of these foot fetish guys and you need money, go to the thrift store and buy an old pair of high heels for $5 or $10. Take a picture of them on your feet from the ankles down and send it to him, asking "how much would you pay for my old shoes?" and see what he offers. Then you can just keep buying old shoes for $10 and selling them to him for like $100 or more. Easy money. He wants to be a weirdo then make him pay for it. Or just tell him to go fuck a cactus.

[Asker]

Hey, thanks for commenting.
The man offered me a new iPhone, to which I politely declined, I told him that I don't need anything, I work for my money, and it is very difficult for them to dazzle me with expensive gifts, I blocked him because I felt it was disrespectful towards my husband, although I never said anything out of place, but I still didn't like the situation, what seems strange to me and even more creepy is that I just gave him the link to my business account , and there I don't have my number, but where I do have it is on Facebook, so he looked for me on Facebook, I unblocked him from Instagram and I asked him where he got my number, and I told him that I didn't like that situation.
But if he keeps asking me the same thing, I will do what you say, I will buy heels and sell them to him lol, at least that way he leaves me alone

[Staximus]

Well if he can afford a new iphone, tell him $500 for the old shoes hahaha. Tell your husband about this guy and if he thinks you should sell him old shoes. If you aren't going to ruin your relationship with your husband, you can keep selling the guy old shoes hahaha. Tell him you have lots of old shoes and send him a new pair every month for $500 but never put your home address as the return address. Don't use a return address or put the local police station as the return address haha

[TrueConfection]

Not normal and definitely has the making of a stalker. Better tell your husband!

[Avicenna]

There’s definitely something wrong with him.

[sheikalana]

Stalking should never be normalized.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Normal, I'm sorry to say.

[boobliker]

but be aware of whoever