Why he stare at me but not other girls , why he teases other girls but never me (only looking at while teasing them)?

[Chiksr]

• I ignore him but he always behave softly, protectively and supportive to me why? can't he find other girls of my class
• He was staring at me with a normal face everyday and also dont look away after being caught by me instead of him i had to look away.
• He sometime smiles but i dont, once he was staring at me whith a smile i ask what? he nodded as nothing and continue to stare with his smile , at last i ignore him.
• He stare at me from past 2 and1/2 years.
• He teases other girls but never me, he talk to them sometime normally sometimes loudly but talk (he only ask for notes rarely, i dont talk to boys) to me in soft voice.
• Once i was anchoring the teachers day event i wear just a casual short kurti with jeans, use a bit of daily cream and lip balm, and a small crystal tops earring and simple ponytail (which i do everyday) other girls wear saree, kurti and wear bit of makeup with lipstick too who participate i look simple in comparison with all of them but I caught him staring at me again and again only. When i and my friend was backstage he was also sitting there with his friends , his friends were busy in talking and he only stare at my face with a smile only. He sit little far then me. I ignore him but when i turn my head to check he was staring already like that.
• I want to know what he want or show to me.
• please share ur opinions on my question by reading the brief of his behaviour.
• Thank u💜

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude sounds really into you, even if he's acting kinda weird about showing it. Staring at you all the time and never teasing you like the other girls is a big sign.

Some guys just don't know how to properly talk to a girl they like, so they end up staring and acting shy. Maybe he teases the other girls cause he's more comfortable with them, but with you he gets nervous cause he really cares what you think of him.

The smiling and stares are him trying to get your attention in his own way. Girls can tell when a guy is into them, even without words. He's making it pretty obvious!

If you want to know for sure, you might have to be the one to make a move. Smile back at him one time and see how he reacts. Or just simply ask him what's up with all the staring. Getting him to open up could give you your answer.

Seems like he picks on the other girls but really just wants your attention. Nothing wrong with that. Give the guy a chance to make his move if you want, or keep ignoring him if you're not interested. But it does sound like he likes you for sure.

[Chiksr]

Once he was staring at me while smiling i ask him what but he only nodded as nothing and continue this. Today i am not well so i hung low my head when i turn toward my friend (he also sit in that direction) he was already straight looking at me, in lunch, while talking to my friends and many other time today too i notice him looking at me but i act like i dont notice. Thanks for writing this much for me💜

[Chiksr]

I ask this question many time anonymously and coincidentally u too answer them. We had minor argument it was the first time he loudly and rudely talk to me but i apologize so we end our grudge he just say no need to sorry i didn't mind its ok in soft and little teasing tone with smile after that he once ask for notes politely and thank. he was outspoken to anyone so if he have anything to say why he didn't

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, this guy is really into you if he's consistently staring and smiling like that! Even when you're not feeling well, he's still paying attention. It's kinda sweet how gently he talked to you after your argument too, like he didn't want you to feel bad.

As for why he never actually said anything about liking you directly, there could be a few reasons:

- He may be shy and nervous to confess how he feels. Admitting feelings can be scary.

- He doesn't want to come on too strong in case you're not interested and might scare you away.

- As an outspoken guy normally, he wants to treat you differently since you matter more.

- Some guys find it hard to express emotions directly and show it more through actions.

If you're getting curious about him too, maybe try smiling back sometime and see how he reacts. You could also think of an excuse to talk one-on-one and get to know each other better. That could help make things clearer between you. But either way, it's cute how much this dude seems into you! Let me know if anything else happens.

[Chiksr]

I am not saying just telling that he was good looking (fair, little bit chubby now, innocent face) in all the males who are in my class and seniors too.
One of my friend whom i notice join same tution batch in which he study, try to make excuse and talk. Once I accidentally hit his hand with my pen i say sorry and he smiles and went from there. I tell this to my friend cauz she sit with me and a bit close then other friends she just nodded and then talk with me bit rudely/annoyingly, at that day in lunch he saw me while smiling but i didn't give any reaction, if my friend saw that i caught him or he stare at me she was pissed off soon, at once event we both are anchor at that time he only stare at me with a smile she saw him and again answer me everytime annoyingly. My classmate also talk with me like they are pissed off too.
But its not my fault i didn't tell him or other boys to stare at me so why my friends and classmate behave lile this to me. i dont know what was happening

[Chiksr]

But my classmate only sometime does this infact my friends behave like this more to me afterall its not my fault. And i too never have intension to make them jealous they are by themself😥

[Oliverlogan263]

That's a messed up situation, I feel you. Seems like your "friends" are jealous and acting real immature about this whole thing. A few thoughts:

- It ain't your fault the dude looks at you a lot. You can't control who likes who.

- You didn't do anything wrong by accidentally touching his hand or noticing him smile. Dude was clearly into you.

- Your so-called friends getting all pissy and rude over it is just dumb. Shows they're more worried about themselves than your feelings.

- Real friends would be chill about a guy liking you and not make you feel bad about it. Their problem, not yours.

- Maybe lay low mentioning it around them if it triggers their jealousy. But don't let them make you feel bad for something innocent on your part.

- Keep doing you, sis. Stay positive and stay out of the drama they trying to create. You got nothing to feel guilty for!

- If they keep antagonizing you, might be time to distance some and find friends who support you without conditions. You don't need that BS.

Keep your head up. Don't let the haters get you down!

[Chiksr]

Thanks for being this much caring and supportive bhai (brother) i dont have brother but u act like the one💖

And i'm the same talkative girl whom u replyied ( friend dates at the mall are seriously needed asap💕).

If u dont mind to answer ur real name was oliver🤔

[Chiksr]

And do u know, at the same pen incident day me, my friends and he, his friends were only in the class everyone was busy in talking me and one of my friends writing our names on the black board with our fingers but it was visible we both standing in front of door he and his friends come there so we both go to our sits. The boy was staring at the board and sliding his fingures on my name only while looking at me with a smile i look at him with a normal face then i look away, i dont get there are my friends names too but he didn't get bother by them.
Yesterday, i was waiting for my papa to pick me from school he was going toward his bus but until he didn't went to bus he was looking at me and i was ignoring him, his bus was just in front of me i dont know he was seeing me through window or not cauz my father come to pick me.
Today, i didn't go to school cauz i am not well and he also come to school till tomorrow because he go for zonal cricket competition for 5 days on 8th and didn't come to school for 5 days.
I was thinking that tomorrow if i get chance i say "all the best to him" but i was confused if he take in wrong way cauz maybe like i was thinking he do this things to me and the things i acciedently did he take it as intentional.
And start thinking that i like him thats why i was confused i should say or not.

[Oliverlogan263]

Acha bahi, seems like this lad really enjoys getting your attention. No surprise, you're a smart and charming girl! But I understand your confusion too. Boys can be tricky to read sometimes.

About saying "all the best" - there's nothing wrong with well wishes for his cricket. Just keep it friendly. A simple "good luck" with a smile should suffice, no need to overthink. And if he takes it the wrong way, not your problem yaar!

At the same time, being shy is okay too. Trust your instincts. If deep down you're unsure, better just wave from a distance. No pressure either way.

But don't let confusion stop your light from shining, beta! You do you. If he's gazing because he likes what he sees, that's on him. Just stay focused on your goals and true friends. The perfect partner will appreciate YOU.

Khelna continue, life mein bahut kuchhaiya! One step at a time. Your big brother's got your back, alright? *big hug* Now go kick some homework butt!

You’re so sweet and my name is sacred but I would tell you privately but Oliver is what I go by. That’s right, I recalled replying to that one too.

[Chiksr]

Ooo ab mai itna bhi kuch khas nhi 😁(mere schoolmates or teachers kai alawa ab tak mere parents nai mere tarif nhi ki)
By the way thanks for ur advice and i want to focus on my career i ask because i was so much curious ( thats why i end up by taking science too ) and ask question to get advice but no one i get who give opinions and advices like u
Thank u💜

[Oliverlogan263]

Awwww thank you so much sis 😊 Aur koi baat nahi, mujhe advice dena achha lagta hai. Agar kabhi kaam aaye to baat kar sakti hai. Tu bhi meri behen jaise hai ab, to mujhe teri fikar rehti hai. 🤜🤛

Aur yaad rakhna, khud par bharosa rakh. Tu kuch bhi kar sakti hai. Boys ke chakkar mein mat padna, padhai pe dhyaan de. Samjhi meri behen?

All the best! Mujhe yakeen hai teri success dekhne ko milegi zaroor.

[Chiksr]

Thank u 💕 i understand everything well, and i also try my best that i achieve my aim soon and give u the good news of my success. And i wish u too bhaiya that u also acheive the height of success soon and have a fortunate future ahead🤗

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome ☺️ That's really sweet of you yaar, thanks so much! I'm sure with your dedication and smarts you'll definitely achieve all your goals. Can't wait to hear about your success someday.

And same to you, I hope I can also work hard and build a good future inshAllah. But for now, focus on your studies and take care of yourself. We're both still young - lots of time to succeed later! Just remember, whenever you need help or want to talk, your bhai is always here for you. Take it easy and let me know how everything goes with the whole school/competition stuff!