Why would a guy I slept with last week, watch my social media stories of a date night I had immediately as if he was keeping up with it?

[Anonymous]

[Billlewis]

I love seeing these kinds of questions every week, but my answer is always the same -- guys are absolutely obsessed with the sexual encounters you're having with other guys, for several reasons --

-- number one, we're fascinated with your intimate sexual interaction with our rivals

-- we're intensely curious to know how the other guy compares to us, and if you intend to continue seeing either of us

-- finally, many guys, myself included, are mesmerized by the phenomenon of the guy's climax, and whether or not it was released naturally, without any barriers, inside your vagina.

[Asker]

Here’s a plot twist, I found out guy in question has a girlfriend. Hmmm. So it made him watching what I was up to even stranger.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I agree that if he currently has a girlfriend, this scenario is obviously less common, but the same, primitive psychology still applies -- you had sex with him and if there is even the slightest possibility that another guy has recently enjoyed this exquisite privilege, we're going to think about virtually nothing else, until we get the answer to what, at that moment, the most exciting, important question in the world;)

[Asker]

I snitched on him to his girlfriend and we cut ties but I still think he likes me. He enjoyed himself so much in bed and couldn’t believe I could go down on him for so long.

[Billlewis]

You told her that he cheated on her with you? I love it! So, now he's not going to get anything for a while? ❤️

[Asker]

Will he hate me and never speak to me again for telling her even though i gave him so much good pleasure …

[Billlewis]

Assuming that he's completely bereft of any possibility of sex with either of you, he'll probably be a little ornery for a while, but I wouldn't be surprised if eventually he not only forgives you, but comes to appreciate this situation.

[Anonymous]

You say he has a girlfriend. And your relationship is superficial. It would be natural for his curiosity to be as high.

Probably you'd do the same if in a similar situation. And there's a man mentality different than a woman.

A man approaches things in life with a certain target, women can just have fun around. So there's something he's missing to know and looking for.. therefore the stalking you mention.

[spartan55]

Probably just being nosey. So you cheated with the guy?

[Asker]

It was a first date and guy 1was a casual thing I don’t cheat on serious men that make their intentions clear and never would

[ThrillSeeker01]

He really likes you a lot, maybe he's jealous if you go out with anybody else

[Danny_dan92]

Ask him