Girls, Can you tell if a guy has been broken by other women?

[Anonymous]

Like at one time he may have been confident but going through constant drama and abuse has shattered him to the point where he doesn’t really smile or trust anymore

[_Maya_]

Yes and no. I mean it is possible that would be something I might think depending on how he acts in a relationship with me. Just talking to someone though probably not. I think if we started dating certain things are bound to surface. I would tread lightly because I wouldn't want to add to the problem. I would try to be supportive and show him that just because some other girl that was no good and abusive doesn't mean that I will be. I would work hard to establish trust and show him that things can be good.