Why do men like extroverted women when it’s considered a masculine trait?

[alexiah]

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I apologize for asking such a dumb question

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I personally see extroversion as often linked with masculine qualities.

[Anonymous]

I’ve never heard of that being a masculine trait. I actually don’t like women like that. I prefer a girl who’s shy, quiet, but has fun when we’re together that she can express her self w laughter, conversation. I don’t want a girl like a lot of these girls online who post photos of themselves shaking their ass, trying to get attention. I mean it’s one thing if she takes a pic of herself on a trip, but something that’s sexual in nature like she’s seeking attention. No.

[alexiah]

Yin is often associated with femininity, while Yang is considered masculine. It is commonly stated that Yin embodies introverted qualities, emphasizing introspection and receptivity, while Yang is linked to extroverted characteristics, highlighting assertiveness and outward expression.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. I’m pretty sure most men don’t like women who are out there, attention seeking, look at me I’m the highlight of everything, I’m important.

[slatyb]

Never apologize, never explain.

[BoopBoopBeep]

There are different flavors to extrovert. The "party girl" is extroverted, and a hard pass. The woman I can host a dinner party with is far more helpful if she can strike up a conversation when needed and introduce people of similar backgrounds and tastes to one another.

Also if you're TOO introverted in the "just sit there like furniture" way we're worried about how that'll play out in bed

[Miristheiss]

Party girls can be fun. In the short term.

Outgoing, party girls can be exciting to hang around and have "fun" with as long as men realize they are not girlfriend material, they'd make a lousy partner, they are cheaters, they are promiscuous, just have some fun for a few weeks and move on. The fools want to make a girlfriend out of an outgoing party girl. Those are the morons who get cheated on and left when she keeps going out to party and always moving on to some new guy.

Just a regular friendly, outgoing person is not necessarily a masculine trait in and of itself.

[etsylo]

I think because it shows how confident and bold she may be. She's up to do anything she feels like doing and is relatively fun to be around. It's good to have outgoing people from time to time.

Though it's not a masculine trait, that's a trait for either gender. I like extroverted people, it helps me be extroverted sometimes too. It makes it easier when it's my female friends as well!

[NathanDavis]

I've actually never heard or seen this to be the case...

"women are introverts and men are extroverts" no... this is not a thing at all.. lol

[alexiah]

🤷🏻‍♀️

[slatyb]

It's not a masculine trait. I don't know who considers it a masculine trait. If you know someone who does, ignore them.

[alexiah]

I personally think it’s a masculine traits. I’m going to ignore myself 😅

[slatyb]

No need to apologize for asking a question.

[Anonymous]

Being extroverted isn't masculine. People often confuse introversion with shyness which is not the same thing. When people talk about gender roles in society, people often equate the idea that the woman who must appear more submissive as introversion when that's more likely shyness. Introversion is more commen in men and shyness is more commen in women. Biologically, women tend to be more socially inclined than men are. There are shy extroverts and overly-confident introverts.

[aceleon]

maybe because they look easier i guess

idon't like them prefer a introverted one, only time i could appreciate an extroverted girl is if they are not whores or feminists.

[Anonymous]

I was about to call you out on a really silly question until I saw your update. Apology accepted.

[alexiah]

Thanks, lol 😂

[Astarlessnightsky]

Is it?

For me, as an introvert, its an annoying trait.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t they’re boring they don’t say anything, but just nod their head yes or no. Then if you try to ask them what would you like to do they say I don’t know it’s up to you

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never dated one, but I can imagine

[Iron_Man]

I’ve talked to some pretty boring ones on the phone before

[riverrat3]

They are just women that attract attention, does not mean all men are attracted to them

[riverrat3]

No question is dumb,

[ChicoFromThe305]

Apology accepted Alexia

[alexiah]

Uhh thanks ig 😹

[ChicoFromThe305]

Never seen a mentally traumatized squidward before? Lol

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I never saw extrovert as a masculine thing.

[TallAnon]

Being the social glue isn't a masculine trait.

[alexsprouts]

I kinda like introverted women