Why do men think women are masculine/ or have behaviors?

[Justneedtokno]

Usually the guys that call women like this is because she doesn’t become codependent.
She’s not waiting for things to be done for her to grow.

She’s choosing to get up and make a change for her life and it’s a little bit before she met you

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So the question is what makes her masculine

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

They are stupid. Women can never be masculine no matter what she tries.

It's impossible because woman is biologically feminine.

[Justneedtokno]

Thank you, thank you thank you nobody wants to do that. Not me as a woman.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. What about tranny's?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@KrakenAttackin: Doesn't matter. Biologically they correspond to their natural gender. Gender cannot be changed.

[Rosexøxø]

Gender only proves scientifically, how each different organism responds to certain situations. The cognitive functions as well. The responses to stress or danger and responses to pain. The sexual preference is developed after puberty, and usually has more to do with the first time of arousal and who/what is present. The rest are choices influenced by childhood/ parents/ and society. A person may prefer a certain gender to reveal intimate parts with based on their level of comfort just as much as why a person would prefer to share certain information with friends instead of parents or vice versa. What they choose to share and talk about in the relationship is purely based on their perception of the other person. If a man has sexual arousal and near a woman- he registers that. If he’s comfortable with her he may see her as someone he can share his intimate parts with- that’s what determines the attraction between the genders: arousal and level of comfort/ cooperation.

The word gender is related to their sexual make up biologically so it cannot determine why a man or woman would do feminine activities or masculine activities. Those decisions to do those activities will be based upon their level of interest/ comfort doing them. ‘Gender’ will only determine how men and woman respond to situations (cognitively) There is a masculine response and a feminine response.

[Rosexøxø]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy ^ also I didn’t read what you guys said before I just wanted to add this. It’s interesting and (also I’m straight)

Gender biologically cannot be changed you’re right. Psychologically- with certain influences and the changing of habits, people can change their lifestyle appearance. The gender appearance. They can also change their preference, but you’re right they absolutely cannot change their biological gender. (Cognitively) they may attempt to do so with medical intervention messing with fluctuating levels of gender specific chemicals like estrogen/ testosterone- which could have serious side affects. At this point I typed it for myself. I may do a my take on this. Your comment was thought provoking!

Not against you by the way! Carry on! 😂🤝

[Philyouup]

i don’t, unless she’s benching more than me. lol

[Philyouup]

i would call her a strong woman not masculine. the two are not entwined. men who don’t like strong women probably have big egos.

[Justneedtokno]

I guess our definition of what a strong woman is different if she’s been through a lot then I consider her strong hardships

[MCheetah]

I think the women you're referring to are the ones who want to be "Alpha Females." And no one is saying they can't be and try to become aggressive, successful, rich women. The problem is, most men don't want a woman who acts like that, but these women think men should want them anyway and will start calling them names, or suggesting they're "intimidated by a strong woman" and any other BS that doesn't help their case.

To put it simply, most men want a woman who acts feminine and being an aggressive workaholic and wanna-be "Alpha Female" is not feminine in the slightest. Almost no men want that. And the only men who want to be submissive in a relationship to his woman are the cucks and soyboys out there who women don't want anyway, especially the strong aggressive successful ones.

[Justneedtokno]

But there is a thing called Quiet dominance

[Justneedtokno]

Where I could be on top of my game and also be soft for you “femininity”

[MCheetah]

"But there is a thing called Quiet Dominance."

Nah. That's BS.

[Justneedtokno]

How for women dad is maintaining and keeping up with her self stability. I think that’s quiet dominance over her own life. And if someone comes along, that’s fine she was a person before she was in a relationship and became one with you. Not waiting at her parents house for ever until you decide you want to be with her

[MCheetah]

Like I said, most men don't want women who feel or state that the man in her life is worthless and serves no value cause "she don't need no man."

[Justneedtokno]

Nobody said that you were worthless or don’t matter that’s you that feel that way never said I don’t want you and I never said I don’t need A man. Just because I’m not waiting around in some basement for you to sweep me off my feet or a white night doesn’t mean I don’t want you say this is your problem

[hyperben]

I dont recall ever really hearing guys accuse women of being masculine, its not something I've come across in real (non-online) life...

[Justneedtokno]

All I hear now on social media is women are trying to be masculine or they’re taking masculine roles

[hyperben]

I dont even know what masculine roles are any more, really. For sure there is more coverage of women doing things that were typically "guy things" but I came from a family where my parents both did extreme sports to a similar level back in the 80's and I know women have been doing badass stuff since way before and between the 80's and now. I guess social media presents it in a way that creates a greater response from people who might construe it as some kind of mechanism to divide the genders.

I work in a pretty heavy industry, I ski, climb, skydive, run. I do all of the things for work/fun with feminine/masculine men and women, I know some superstar athletes who are portrayed as macho/masculine on social media but are just normal people in real life.

Social media is a pretty nasty and cruel place, its in human nature to shame people and use divisive tactics to suit whatever agenda they want to push, the faceless nature of social media creates a situation where people dont know where to draw the line and stop shaming/dividing.

[KrakenAttackin]

@hyperben. These loud, aggressive, obnoxious, competitive, mean spirited women are overly masculine. These women are all over corporate America.

[hyperben]

@KrakenAttackin sounds grim, I dont like guys or girls that match that description!!

[hahahmm]

A woman trying to do everything is just a symptom of her fear that she's not good enough to get a high quality dude.

[Justneedtokno]

What do you mean do everything?

[hahahmm]

"everything" means the things you wouldn't have to do if you had a high quality dude.

[Justneedtokno]

Like what?

[Justneedtokno]

What are things that a high-quality man would do that I wouldn’t do on my own

[hahahmm]

Work 40-60 hours/week at a job you don't even like. Stressing about savings, investments, retirement, insurance... whether the contractor is trying to rip you off or not... how to handle situations that can only be solved by having massive balls. And on and on.

[Justneedtokno]

Having a job pays for the bills that she has when she is living alone. Before meeting. Where do you want her to be on the street and you pick her up and save her “savings, investments, retirement, insurance... every person should have these things.” whether the contractor is trying to rip you off or not. - I have a farther

[KrakenAttackin]

@hahahmm Very well said. She knows she isn't worthy of a good man.

[Justneedtokno]

@KrakenAttackin you must be on one today. I don’t think I deserve less than a quality man. This is why I am single. This is why I don’t use the guys that wanna choose me.

[KrakenAttackin]

@hahahmm. YES... THIS.

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno Didn't you recently post about how you're tired of dating dudes who cheat on you & dudes who are ex cons or in prison? Those aren't quality dudes. Unless you yourself are a cheater and in prison in which case I guess it's just even.

[Justneedtokno]

Well @KrakenAttackin just said I don’t deserve a quality man.

@hahahmm correction I have been by these type of men that a willing to cheat on their SO for me

I’m a cheater
I’m not a ho
I do not wish to be a man AT ALL

I also know I am not a bum couch hopping. I do not have the luxury of staying with my parents til I’m 30. Wait for a man to knock on the door. My mother is dead my father is disabled to some extent.

I have to work and pay bill.

I never said I don’t want a man I never i don’t need a man. @hahahmm I don't know why you act as if we have discussed this.

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno "I'm a cheater" -- This explains a lot. And yeah, you did DM me before & we discussed some stuff, plus we have had many public discussions on this stuff.

[Justneedtokno]

You know that’s a typo.

[Justneedtokno]

Getting the notion that a woman works she’s not suitable to be with a man a woman taste care of her father, who is partially disabled that is not a woman you guys want a woman that pretty much has to take care of herself because there is no one that’s going to take care of her and that’s a heavy burden to put on someone she is somebody that is not suitable to be in a relationship with a real man I’m looking for the logic

[Justneedtokno]

@hahahmm @KrakenAttackin so a woman that learned early in life it’s not just handed to her is not suitable for marriage

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno How am I supposed to know it's a typo? Anyhow, you seem to think that you can do anything in life and still be entitled to whatever man you want. Nah. Men have the power to say: 'no', just like you women do. Just because most men won't say no to sex, it goes to you women's heads & you think it means he won't say no to taking you seriously or marriage. Wrong. Even the lowest quality dudes usually know better than to take a woman seriously when she has certain red flags. YOU chose to ignore advice from men on this topic over & over again. That's YOUR problem.

My guess is that your mom's poor choices got programmed into you and you thought she knew best when it came to men but actually she was clueless.

[NathanDavis]

I just don't entertain stupid childish ideas of this type

[KrakenAttackin]

@NathanDavis. That's because you are too busy drinking soy and being pegged.

[NathanDavis]

@KrakenAttackin need your diaper changed again?

sure, I'll give your mother a call, so she can go down to the basement and bring you some new ones, hang in there little bud

[misogynistic_pig]

Men are physically and intellectually superior, there is nothing a woman can do that a man cannot do a thousand times better, the woman should only dedicate herself to giving birth.

[Pot8o]

There are plenty of things women are better at.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Pot8o Name a few.

[Pot8o]

@KrakenAttackin Have you ever looked at men's handwriting? Yikes. I'd wager the average woman is better at cooking. Women are much better songwriters and usually better singers. Girls are much better at doing their homework than boys are, and women are outperforming men in education.

[Pot8o]

Women are generally better interior decoraters, dressers, anything to do with aesthetics, they tend to have down.

Women are better marksmen.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Pot8o "Handwriting"? Seriously? As for cooking, all the great chefs in the world are MEN. Music is subjective, but I will give you there are great female musicians. HOMEWORK? WTF? You have a wildly gynocentric education system where it has been proven (in Europe and the US) that female teachers grade boys MUCH harder than boys. As for college, boys are choosing NOT to go wildly expensive gynocentric indoctrination camps.

Try again.

[Pot8o]

@KrakenAttackin Yes, handwriting, seriously. All the top chefs can be men, and it can still be true that most men cannot cook while most women can. I didn't mention grading. I said girls work harder in school than boys do, generally. Also, you don't have to assume I'm some kind of feminist, I have plenty of things to critique about the education system and about how misandric society is in general. That doesn't mean I can't admit that women tend to be better than men are at certain things.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think all women should absolutely follow their dreams.

[bamesjond0069]

Its masculine and makes her only qualified only for casual sex, or a sugar mama. she's useless for anything else.

[Justneedtokno]

What makes her masculine that’s the question

[bamesjond0069]

If you mean like having a career...

Feminine is submissive, subordinate, caring, nurturing, pleasant... all things that would make one bad at having a successful career. To excel in most normal careers ones needs to be dominant, leader, unemotional, and somewhat unfriendly. A person who is good at firing someone is not likely to be the most caring person. 99% of people cannot 180 flip their personality.

Also, its purely functional. Every moment she is working, she isn't cleaning, cooking, caring for kids, being pleasant and available for the husband. A clean house is highly desirable from a woman, money is not something men generally think about as what a woman is supposed to provide. There are gender roles and a working woman occupies the masculine gender role.

[bamesjond0069]

Having a career
Not cooking
or cleaning
Not liking kids
Not being caring
Being aggressive
or competitive
Not being submissive
cutting her hair short
wearing pants all the time, especially like pant suits

[KrakenAttackin]

@bamesjond0069. Let's add:
Loud.
Obnoxious.
Over fucked.
Alcoholic.
Clubbing constantly.

[hahahmm]

There's a video of some top level female CEO of Pepsi-Cola. She brags about NOT spending time with her kids BECAUSE she's such a good feminist. Her husband is one of those weak dudes, of course. The only kind of man a woman like that can get is weak.

[Justneedtokno]

www.instagram.com/.../?igshid=NmNmNjAwNzg=

[Justneedtokno]

I would hope that some of these are universal but OK

[bamesjond0069]

Regarding the IG video. It's still masculine. But but but if your man doesn't do it then... NO. You're the dumbass with no standards and you dated a loser just to use it as an excuse to be the man yourself. Which see still has you being the masculine one. Thats the fact. No excuse changes a fact.

[hahahmm]

@bamesjond0069 Yup. Justineedtokno needs to watch some old Kevin Samuels videos.

[KrakenAttackin]

@hahahmm All the GAG feminist need to watch Kevin Samuels.

[Justneedtokno]

Have you looked at the new series that Kevin Samuels created this conversation the new series on YouTube as well

[hahahmm]

@Justneedtokno So what did you learn about yourself form watching Kevin Samuels?

[AndrésC64]

Why do women think men are feminine / or have behaviors?

[Justneedtokno]

The same as y’all we get indoctrinated on what a man should be and your introduction to know emotions or this or that we learned that guys don’t have that too, so don’t waste your time on trying to connect

[AndrésC64]

What?

[Justneedtokno]

Women were taught that men don’t have feelings or emotions they’re more logical

[Anonymous]

I call women like this when they are fat either have really bad taste in terms of makeup and fashion

[KrakenAttackin]

And this is why you fail with men.

[Justneedtokno]

Guys just don’t come up to me. I’m not what they’re looking for. Hi will never be masculine but I’m not a man.

[Anonymous]

I don't get it