Guys, Hot Co worker- are men pretty simple, that if they are attracted to them - then they chase them relentlessly?

[Anonymous]

Would you say that there is no ambiguity when you are interested in a new females co worker?

That you would never leave their messages on ‘read’, would message and chase them all the time - and just ask them out (no ambiguity in your conduct or interest shown towards them).

[CalmUntilAbused]

I mean, male specimens of the Homo sapiens animal species probably do follow that pattern. Men do not, as they are capable of forecasting the potential disastrous consequences. As for me, I'd never approach a woman at work in this manner. More than that, I would avoid making contact with women if at all possible, in order not to incur unnecessary risk.

[bededazzle]

if it was a coworker i would restrain myself so i don’t jeopardize my job

[Asker]

So what would you do to indicate interest?

[bededazzle]

i would probably be really nice to them and like to talk but that’s it

[Asker]

How is that any different to treatment of any other colleagues?

[bededazzle]

it’s not really, unless the woman is really good at picking up body language

[Asker]

What body language indicates interest?

[bededazzle]

I don't know i just read somewhere that women are good at it. every time i’ve asked someone out they’ve said they knew i liked them

[boggboss]

Nope guys are not a hivemind that act only 1 way

[Asker]

So what would you do to indicate interest?

[boggboss]

Before I was with my partner I wouldn't I was way too shy to show intrest no I would speak to them and see how things go

[Asker]

How did you guys meet and end up together?

[boggboss]

St a work party she approached me first

[Asker]

And then when she indicates interest, you pursued her? Is your personality generally shy and introverted all the time?

[boggboss]

Before I was with her I was more shy but around the time we started talking I started to gain more confidence

[Asker]

So you chased her, after that party?

[boggboss]

We chased eachother I would guess it didn't feel like I was the only one pursuing her

[Billlewis]

I think that's probably true.

[Asker]

So complimenting the girl’s attire, calling her my darling, hugging her when you see her but never asking her out and sometimes ignoring her work related messages would just be friendly , right? This isn’t how you behave, if you are attracted to a woman , right?