My crush is an idiot yet I am wanting him to like me?

[Anonymous]

I think I just feel very sad and in need of something to make me a bit happier.

The guy is a total tool I’m not even sure he knows my name

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww sis I feel you, been there before. Sometimes when you're down you just wanna feel wanted ya know? Even if the dude ain't all that.

But trust, getting with some idiot ain't gonna make you any happier in the long run. If this fool can't even get your name right now, how much do you think he's really gonna be there for you? You'll be doin all the effort while he's doin his own thing. Lame.

I know it's hard turning off those feels, but you gotta respect yourself more than that. Don't go chasing thirsty dudes who don't see how great you are. Focus on you for now - spend time with your real friends, do something fun and take your mind off it.

Soon you'll meet someone better who adores you the right way, but until then stay strong! Don't waste your time on lame boys who won't treat a queen like you with the respect you deserve. There's better out there sis, believe that!

[Asker]

I agree completely.

I will try to remember this

[Oliverlogan263]

For real girl, I'm glad you agree! Sometimes we all need a reminder that we are enough, just as we are.

Don't be too hard on yourself for having silly crushes - we've all been there. But do make sure to lavish that love and attention on yourself too. You totally deserve it.

Next time you start feeling down about this dude or wanting his attention, flip the script. Redirect those feelings inward with an act of self-care. Give yourself the caring energy you wish you were getting.

A face mask, cozy jammies, your favorite book or movie - treat yo'self, mama! Filling your own cup is the best way to attract what truly makes you happy. You got this sis, I believe in you!

And if Mr. Toolface DOES happen to come around, just remember - you don't need his approval. His loss if he can't see how amazing you are already 🔥 Now go shine that beautiful light!

[RoseySarah]

Course as women we need attention 🤣. Even from loser tools we need those looks and feeling pretty being wanted!

Imagine how good it will feel when someone worth while likes you?

[Asker]

I know.

I guess it's that saying right, ignoring is worse than picking on someone it makes you feel so down as though you're not even worth proper acknowledgment

[RoseySarah]

Yup you do how you feel and work for someone better