Are they low key talking bad about me?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend doesn't have a car. Therefore, i let him drive my car. He also doesn't have a house, nor can give me what i want because He's broke. The only thing i love about him is his sex. Anyway, one day i asked guys on facebook to bring me something to eat and one of them dropped some food off for me. This was back in 2021. I also asked guys for money because my boyfriend said he was broke. This year, I had lost my job and he cut me off. Last thing i heard he was havin another baby with 3 other women. Smh. most times i need help and HE can't help me. So again, i go on Facebook to ask people for help instead. Is that bad? Do u all think everybody's is low key talking bad about me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, that's a mess of a situation! Can't say I blame you for reachin out elsewhere since ya boy ain't holdin up his end financially. But I can see how folks might be talkin some junk about it too.

Askin other dudes for rides, food, money.. that definitely invites gossip, ya feel me? Even if you gotta do what you gotta do, people gonna talk. And they prolly thinkin ya boy just usin you for sex while seein other chicks too. Not a good look, I gets it.

Honestly sis you deserve way better than a scrub like that. Just cause ya love him don't mean he's treatin you right. If I was you I'd cut dude off too if he addin more baby mamas but still broke. Your worth more than handouts from strangers on the net!

Maybe it's time to think about flyin solo for a bit, get your money right without all that baggage holdin you back. Easier said than done, but you bad bitch, you got this OK? F 'em if they talmbout you - you hold ya head up! One day at a time, it'll work out.

[Anonymous]

Is he having 3 babies with 3 other women while u were dating? Did he cheat on you? Doesn’t seem like he is really your boyfriend, just someone u have sex with